Hi still a newbie so be easy on me. I met a HB 8.5 over the weekend we got on well I DHV’d negged and started some light Kino. I didn’t really have enough time to build enough attraction to number close so I told her she can add me on facebook. The next day She added me, she messaged me saying it was nice to see you that day and how I was etc… I replied and left it at that. The next day I sent her a message saying “hey smelly!” and all she replied was by saying “okaaaaay”. It felt like a big IOD. I just wanted to know what I did wrong?

Thanks is advance.

ok just got some news from a friend that shes likes me. I dont have her number or anything so how would i go about this?

Good job on the facebook add! Sounds like your playful tone didn't carry over to her and she isn't sure how to take it. Typically when messaging online I'll include a smiley, lol, or some other form so she knows I'm kidding or being playful. Forget about it and continue on the path.

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Just added my post as you added yours. I would find a way to get her from email to IM (instant messenger). Then after some more comfort building I would say something like "I'm tired of all this typing can we continue this conversation on the phone? Great whats your number?" If she doesn't give it to you. Continue comfort building online and try again at a later date.

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Great!! thanks for the advice! ill definatly try it out!

Well i tried it and it went pretty! Well! for anyone interested here is the full transcript of the conversation! Please excuse the spelling errors!
And as always any constructive criticism is much Appreciated!



HB: Hi!

Me: Hey smellly! wats up?

HB: Nothing just verrrrry cold

HB: hwww r u?

Me: Im pretty fantastic!

HB: i saw ur twin today!!

ME: ooo get u! I had had loads of lectures on ICt. It was boring but wat was great was lunch break. i spoke to 1 girl and she Amazingly good at ICt completly broadend my horizons!

Hb: lol ict suckkkks

HB: its just borrring i dont even remember doing it at myschool

HB: wait acutly it was alright

ME: so u wen u saw my twin did u manage to say all these wonderfull things about me?

HB: lol sorry i didnt get to mention how amazing you are!

HB: shame really isnt it

ME: not good enough HB, ull have to make it up to me

HB: lol of course i will ::

HB: im soooo coollddd

ME hehe. ive jst come with an amazing idea! turn the heating up silly!

HB: it is up fullll!!!

HB: its cos i was waiting in the cold for like 30 minutes on my own ( im cool lol ) and then i stood at a bus stop for ageeeees

HB: everything bad happens to me!

Me: hey not everything bad happens to you. i mean come on, ur talking to me!

HB: lol i suppose i am quite lucky then ! (thts supposed to be a eye rolling simile btw)

HB: haa i jokeeee

HB: i feel privilidged!

Me: good. i was starting to feel like u had a bitchy side to u HB!

HB: of course not!

HB: im just wonderfully amazing

ME: suuuure u are! OMG u aree listening to Adieu (song by enter Shikari)

HB: yesss i ammmmm!

ME: love tht song! some reason it makes me smile when i hear it

HB: yeh i get you!

HB: its one of those songs u cant be moody to

ME: HB, if im not busy we should meet sometime soon and u can help me with my xmas shopping!!

HB: off courrrse! anyitme

ME: well then Gime me ur digits!!

HB: if YOU arent busy lol... schedule around when ur free why dont we ha !

ME: yh of course, im a busy man!

HB: digits? as in number lol?

HB: im not IN with the lingo!!!!!!!!

Me: jeeeze ur such a posh girl!!

HB: yes i am lol

ME: yes well now u no what digits mean!

HB: let me get my phone!

HB here weee go : XXXXXXXXXXX

ME: check your phone u have a suprise

HB: so do you!

ME: jeeze now u have my number u lucky thing!

HB: lol i feel so lucky

ME: i must be off to do my home work! jeeze ur such a distraction!!

ME: Byee. xx

HB: byeeeee xxxxox

Nice, good job!

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lol i was actually surprised how well you did because when i first read when you called her smelly and didnt convey the playful attitude, i thought you werent going to do so hot, but i was wrong, great job, now make things interesting when you meet up, stay congruent

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