Ok.. I have been away from the game for quite sometime basically just focusing on my own life and that's about it. It almost feels like time have stopped and my sex drive went to almost zero.

I managed several approached a couple of months ago, they were involuntary as I did not have any plan to approach and one of them ended being a long distance relationship for a while until we both lost interest. They were subtle, friendly, seductive and extremely successful at the time.

Now I decided that I should be back in the game, especially that I met one of the guys on this forum in person and found out that its a terrible mistake to neglect such a thing.

So I decided to go everyday on my lunch break to a small mall next to my workplace and start practicing approaches and to be honest I am finding it difficult as my AA is strong.

I started a couple of days ago, trying to approach random women, sometimes with a plan sometimes without any ideas.

I end up being overwhelmed by approach anxiety but I really want to get over it.

I started writing down the experiences on a notebook as to keep myself motivated to keep trying. Here is how it went:

28-01-12 / Lack of openers and ideas holding me back & approach anxiety is high but have socialized with people as much as to get tame a bit of that anxiety.

29-01-12 / Found a perfect target, a nice blonde girl HB7 wearing horse riding shoes. Wanted to approach and thought I'd ask her about her boots and what she does but waited for so long that AA kicked in hard. I tried to force myself to approach for quite sometime but couldn't. Started getting more anxious to the extent that I started thinking of the people around the area that have seen me near by the girl for quite sometime. Called it off and was very disappointed

30-01-12 / Was disappointed by my AA from yesterday so I decided to go again for another round. Was feeling cocky but nervous as-well. I started looking around for girls to approach and attempted to maintain eye contact with as many people as possible along with starting a couple of short convos a random lady promoting a product. Then I went to some nearby event where there are girls promoting some other product. I wanted to approach but once again AA got the best of me. I feel that the more I think about attempting an approach the more difficult it is to make.
In fact I feel like I do translate that I have an agenda to approach and I dont want to because that's what most guys do and it puts girls off..

31-01-12 / I hit the mall and told myself im not leaving without making 1 approach. I was walking around and found some 7-8 targets managed to successfully approach 2 with some sweet talk and flirting. Could not walk out with a phone number but I would say it was a decent progress.

09-02-12 / Approaching have become easier. Much easier, it no longer feels difficult and it was overrated.. I watched Sasha's day game, infidel approach as I lacked any ideas for openers and thats what was somehow holding me back..

I managed to open to 6 girls today, one which was going to give me her phone number but was hesitant as her boss was present so she asked me to come later.

Now I am more motivated to venture further into the game..

16-02-12 / I went out to a mall where I found alot of girls to approach. Though AA was high, it took me like 30 minutes of walking in the mall to over-come it and start making a move.. I wanted to approach 10 women since last time I managed to open several.

But I managed to approach 3 and things went well but I didnt get any numbers out of them, no problem but it was all good and I was glad I left some impression on each of them.. I relied on Sasha's infidel direct approach methods.

I came to a conclusion that I am fine and confident with women, I really dont have any issues with a 'fear' of women but I am in a serious lack of game and ideas to maintain a successful approach.. I am looking forward to keep improving and succeeding.



Things with Girl 1 went as follows:
She refused to give me her contact after a conversation about each other's backgrounds.I felt like she was interviewing or profiling me by asking me what job you have, do you live with your family, immediately after she knew I was hitting on her. (At that stage I was not liking the idea that she started somehow taking control of matters). She told me you never know how things can go between us.

She was hesitating and trying to make up excuses so I dont get a contact. I replied that I will never know until I try, is there any reason for not so? I understood she was not interested. So I told her: if you are not interested just say you arent.

She replied thanking me for telling her so. (I assume she thought I will end up poking her for a number as some guys do get annoying).

I spoke to her for a few seconds and told her its nice to meet you, what was your name again, shook her hand and left.


Girl 2 went as follows:
I walked to her and she was working in a men's garment store. I was checking some jackets and I took a vantage point so once she approaches, I will manage to catch her attention. She comes by with a hello, as part of her job requires.

I replied with a hi, how are you? Told her im checking out some blazers, etc, etc.. Long convo, she made me try out a blazer, etc, etc. Chatting and laughing and stuff.

I told her thanks, stayed for a while check some more clothing, then while I was walking out.. I passed by her I called her name and told her: mind if I ask you something.

She's like yeah..

I told her whos the luck guy?

She's like what?

I said are you seeing anyone..

She's like yeah.. with a smile.

I told her is he bigger than me.

She a laughed like hell and liked that joke.

Then i ran out of stuff to say so I told her, hey listen. It was really nice to meet you and I wont interrupt you from your job but maybe well cya later..

Keep at it! You seem to be making good progress.

Not satisfied, I want more..

Time to study the mid-game..

21-02-12 / Hit 2 different malls within 2 hours.. To try to approach I had a goal must walk out with 3 approaches at least..

But this time, I crashed really bad, AA was just too high yesterday.. Its like I started from scratch..

I am actually nervous that I might look weird or creepy as I never approached walking target in public.

I guess I need to get over the fear of looking stupid or embarrassing as well.

Admins, you can delete this thread. I dont think I would need to further clutter the forums with more field reports, theres is more than enough already.