So I go to a dance club yesterday about 11:00pm. The club is very small and extremely loud. Opening was impossible because you couldn't hear a thing. So I decided to just dance. Most guys in the club stood around like creeps on the sidelines because there were way more guys than girls. But I just started dancing by myself and tried to approach other girls dancing. Most didn't make eye contact with me so it was hard to get them dancing with me. I know that if I had more confidence I could get them facing me while I danced.

But then I was able to get a girl to dance with me and started grinding. Unfortunately, this was my first time grinding and I did it wrong, so she lost interest.

Another 30 minutes of dancing goes by while I danced by myself and with cool dude that seemed to have his dance moves down. I just stuck by him and we started rocking the place up. Finally I engage a single girl and she started dancing with me. It starts slow. I just move up behind her and rub against her a bit. Then she seems to enjoy it so we get more into it. I put my hands on her hips and start to guide her swaying. We really got into it. Dancing all out. She gave me serious IOIs through I contact. I'm 6'2 and she was short, but she always kept looking up at me. She tried to talk to me a bit, but it was impossible to here anything. Finally she kept looking at me so much that I went in for kiss right on the dance floor. The kiss was awkward, but we continued dancing, and kissed once more again. We were both having a lot of fun. Eventually though, she went over to another guy... not to dance... and just sat on his lap and they hugged. And she left the club with him. I'm not sure if he was her BF or what. This left me confused cause she wanted to kiss me the second time and we danced a while afterward with strong kino.

Overall it was cool experience. I'm still puzzled why she just left me hanging, but two kisses and 30 minutes of dancing was pretty cool. I think my biggest success was just dancing with myself the whole night but really being into it. I'm glad I didn't stand around on the sidelines like a scared chump. Now I'm going to practice better dance moves and be even more bold next time.

My biggest problem was not being able to hear anything due to the music. The club was so small there was no good place to isolate, although I could have at least tried to isolate towards the entrance. Lesson learned. Next time I'm isolating the girl after the kiss.

Share your thoughts about dance game. I went in with a bunch of openers planned, but I never got the chance to use them -- just not possible in this setting. How do you guys deal with that? Also, how do you number close after the dance? I want to get Day 2's from this and it seems hard to transition from grinding to building rapport in a loud venue. I couldn't even get this girl's name!

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Good for you dude!

I Dance, just to dance . I personally enjoy the music and feeling it. I don't care who's watching. It's awesome that you have the confidence to do this.

A few things i would do is: Approach from the side or front (Unless You live where it is more acceptable if you approach from the back. If she is grinding on you (Her back to you) Grab her hand, spin her round and pull her close.

If she was short and your kinda tall and she was trying to talk. Maybe you could just lift her up, to your height then ask want she wanted to say.

There just ideas.... Good luck!

Happy Gaming!