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griff_199
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2012 3:05 am 
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So ive been seeing this girl for like 6 months not officially but basically having sex alot and always kissing on nights out, talking everyday etc.
I dont want a relationship because of some personal shit i need to get over before i can handle the stress of a relationship etc. I told her this and she accepted it and was happy to keep going as we are.

Now she's saying its all or nothing either relationship or we stop all this...and i don't know what to do. Basically heres the reasons why im not thinking relationship...

-Ive only been single a few months
-Some bad personal stuff went down in the summer and my heads still not 100% im still getting over it all
-I have plans such as moving away after university and don't want a relationship to affect my judgement....(this happened in my past relationship)

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I think you already made up your mind.

Tell her, you like spent time with her.

But if its her choice of leaving for her own sake

Then you respect her and wish best of luck to her.

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Are you sleeping with anybody else? If the answer is no, then you're already in a relationship.. you just haven't verbalized it yet.

On the other hand, if a girl gives you an ultimatum, then you should almost always call her bluff (playfully).

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if a girl gives you an ultimatum, then you should almost always call her bluff (playfully)
what do you mean by that? pls explain.

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The typical relationship ultimatum is "you do what I say or I'm leaving." If you give in it to that, then it affirms that the other person has all the power in the relationship. It's basically a huge shit-test and you should treat it like any other shit-test (i.e. ignore it, tease her about it, change the subject.. basically anything other than taking it seriously).

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ahh, ok i see. so basically just dont accept her terms. i should get better at poker :) i totally agree with you.

thanks for the respone.

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i dont know m8 try to find more about her
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