Dude if it matters to you, I completely understand. I only now this chick for like 3 weeks and we have not been strong like you, and it is still a little hurtfull, but I guess and can utilize this time to sharpen my teeth and go out a lot.

Also bro, you have a lot more to look forward to than just moving and starting a career. Dude, think of the next girl you are going to be kissing softly while her heart throttles. Think of the next vagina that is going to be presented to you eagerly cuz you did everything right. Think of your alpha self just fucking getting life, like a matrix....
cheer up, rise your gravitational state and attract positive shit towards you

ok well good news she did send a "hey how are you" text a few hours ago so now I know it can be salvageable. I didn't totally blow it. For now I'm gonna let it cook. I figure maybe send something tomorrow night? I do have an exam to study for so it's a legit excuse I guess. I just know it would be AFC to respond right back after waiting most of the week for her.

My only concern though is if my lack of response would be too big of an IOD to her that she gives up and moves on but I think that would only be if I ignored her for days. But I'll put my trust in PUA theory in that the longer I wait the more she'll think about it and miss me..hopefully and up my value more than that other guy if she is texting him.

Stay strong bro. Do not text back at ALL. I recommend talking to other girls. It's the most powerful way to put this situation into perspective for you.

Samex

I agree with samex, I'd next her if I was you. Move on.

I wish I could move on to other girls but there are no other girls right now. I go to school in the middle of nowhere and there's not even any good girls online POF/Okcupid (where I met this one) in my area. I guess I could move on and put gaming on hold until I move back to the city later this spring or I could just see where this goes. I don't know. I'm torn.

Either way, if she mentions that guy again I'm gone. I just don't know for sure if she's texting him or not.

If she declines my offer to go on an adventure or makes an excuse I just won't reply back

I want to make her work for me but I don't know if I should shut her out yet because we didn't really leave on bad terms or anything but she just either lost interest or attraction or truly is not sure. She hasn't dated in 3 years and has only been in one relationship so I don't know if she is full of BS or is genuine.

For now I'm holding back though, I want to see just how interested she is. If she keeps texting or calls I'll know.

Ok, so I gave in and texted her. And yet again I'm stuck when I asked her to join me going downtown tomorrow night. She seemed interested asking the time and place then said she was going shopping with her friend and then going to a nearby town. (more excuses) So basically I just said "nice talking to you" and she sorta freaked out. Here is a link to my new thread:

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