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PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 2:38 am 
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let me start by saying this forum is awesome. thanks to this place ive found two great, intelligent and motivated guys who are willing to go the extra mile and push themselves into picking up women. for so long i thought i was alone in my endeavor but after tonight - our second trio night out in sheffield - were going to write our field reports. we all stepped out of our comfort zone and learned alot of lessons. this will represent our personal journey. (also anyone in sheffield wishing to join us pm me)


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2012 3:28 am 
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I started out at 9pm and went to meet my 2 new fellow aspiring pua's. we exchanged ideas and material, then shortly after set out on our quest for success.

we went to lots of bars around the sheffield center so i wont bore with the details. this is gonna be used to write about tactics and things learned from employing such.

the first and one of the biggest lessons i learned is to try out a routine until it works. i found a broken rose on the floor outside a bar, i picked it up, polished it off, and when i held it the stem was bent, so much that it was almost snapped and the rose was pointing to the floor. it looked funny. this was going to be my opener. i intended to approach girls with the broken rose and say "i got this for you" with a smile. My intention was not to use many words as the dancefloor is loud, and to induce sexual tension between us.

the first girl i approached with the funny gesture laughed, then i laughed we chatted, i failed and decided to move on.

i made up my mind to adapt this policy, by improving the opener. to the next girl i showed her the rose, we both laughed, i ensured she held it, then i said "now you must give me something in return" with a smile, she gave to rose back, dancefloor game is loud convo fizzled, and i lost her to her friends.

the third time i intended to go with confidence and strong assumptions. this was going to win me a kiss. so i went up to a girl, told her i got the rose for her, she laughed held it, then i said "now i want something in return" looked away touched my cheek expectingly, and recieved a kiss. needless to say this game resulted in an easy kiss close.

in one night by adapting the same tactic it ensured a kiss close. I have the boys to thank for being able to discuss tactics and work out formulas.

Another benefit of being with the guys was we all "dare"each other to talk to groups of girls, its what we came for, so we do it. we all have the approach in us and that separates us from everyone else ive ever been out with. it was my turn to approach some girls next to us. it was great because i knew the guys would watch my game and critique it for improvements after.

i turned my chair around, tapped the girl closest to me in the 2set on the shoulder and said hey, let me guess....your at sheffield hallam! shes said "yes!" to which i replied ecsstatically "me too". one of them said "really" and i said "no". that was my get in. i quickly planted myself on their table and tried to initiate conversation. i was leaning back and talking to them both, asking boring stuff about their life, trying to guess their degree e.t.c the girl on the left gave strong ioi's the girl on the right didnt. she wanted to get to embrace and said as much to her friend, her friend ignored and kept on chatting. i wanted to entice the girl on the right, so i asked her if her glasses were real or hipster, then dropped a dhv about me living abroad for 2 years and they all wear hipster glasses. my problem is that when theres a silence about to occur, i fill it, even though im not gesticulating with lots of energy, i feel (and my fellow observing PUA's said as much) i feel that i was putting too much effort into the convo. anyway i got bored and asked about them going to embrace to get them out the door faster, didnt number close as they were both 7's left it at that.

later in the night at another bar i approached a 2set of girls, a 7 and and 8 blonde. i got talking to them both and negged the blond. im sure it was working because she did that stare at me while she was sipping her straw. i threw a wink and kept chatting to her friend, not realising that id also garnered attraction in her friend. so as i was talking to the 7 the 8/10 blondie moved away and was watching us talk closely, i thought fuck it ill just practise anyway, so teased the girl, kissed her while her 5 friends watched as the lights came on at the end, and she told me she lived in rotherham as i asked for her number, the i looked into her eyes and said, ahh that such a shame, it cant work. she began trying to qualify herself immensely. that form of rejection is very powerful she felt she missed something. i need to utilise that earlier in a set somehow with a hot girl, a very strong push pull technique. anyway i pulled out and moved on.

next, at another bar a fellow potential PUA moved straight in to the girl in the doorway, her friend jumped in front (bit of a grenade) and i crept in behind and chatted to the other. i said "wow your friend is a great shield" i need one of those aswell to stop all the girls from chasing me in the clubs...mines over there (i pointed to a fellow potential PUA). we got talking and iwas going to bullshit saying i could read hands. so i grabbed her hand, to read it, but she wasnt bothered, touching her hand somehow stimulated her to like me and she began kino-ing me. she was only a 7 so when her friend asked her to leave i let her go. all practise is practise.

a final, important part of the night ensued. one of the my associates said to me "i want you to approach one girl with complete honesty, say exactly what you feel". those words stuck in my head. and on the dancefloor in a not so busy bar i saw a 9/10HB gorgeous. i looked at her. turned to my other associate and said to him "im scared to approach her, i think shes gorgeous, but im just scared". he looks at me briefly with empathy (weve all been in that boat) , and i think "fuck it" and make a bee line for her.

i walked straight up to her, got quite close and said. "i think youre gorgeous" held her stare for a few seconds and we both smiled. then i decided to say "by the way ive already told my dad about us" "we getting married.....i expect at least five kids" she laughed (time bought) i then asked her what year shes in at uni....(i know...shit question...anyway i didnt care...it was a breakthrough) then i stopped her and said..."wait...let me guess.......5". we both laughed cos of course there is no 5th year. then a guy comes in the middle of us and tries to block me out, talking about her having his drink, she instantly disqualifies him saying hes her housemate, (a definite ioi in my eyes) i shake his hand, brief chat then back to her. i proceeded to talk about our wedding and i said i want a castle, she said she wanted it on a beach, i said "thats great, we'll make a sandcastle, itll take 3 days but'll be totally worth it, she laughed again then other friends came in. i introduced myself and won a smile from her fat frien....damn theres so many god damn barriers to a hottie! then back to her, it appears id passed most of the shit tests, then another of her friends came.....and signalled her to come away she was semi reluctant but began moving...im not one to chase a girl, completely against code so i let it happen. i should have grabbed her hand and shown my leadership qualities...but i didnt. i failed that "shit test". they got away. this has taught me alot. this was my first shot at getting over this fear of approaching 9's and 10's in England. even though it was a fail over all, i see it as the first step to great success, the natural game was coming out and lasted a good ten mins, most tests got passed, but i still clearly need to iron some things out. i felt on top of the world after that. and knowing i had my two new trainee PUA friend there to share my highs and lows was great. without them i doubt i could have broken my fear of the 9's and 10's. this is the start of something powerful.


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hey man, on the one hand its good that you give each other advice while out and feedback, but you are putting yourself into a very analytical mindset, which is not productive for getting into state, you want to be outside of your head and having fun. Maybe you should save all game talk for at the end of the night and have a debrief then. (These are ideas from tyler durdan, but it's what i do as well).

I'm in sheffield and always out sarging, what places do you go, maybe i'll see you.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 10:49 pm 
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Wow. this weekend was incredibly interesting to say the least.

Friday daytime....im walking to university, thinking about initating some street game with the hotties walking the same way in such beautiful weather (the inspiration for such is watching a fellow trainee doing face to face approaches with people walking in opposite directions), im a little late for class so i start to hurry.....but across the road i see....i see...what looks like 3 korean girls from behind. i jog across.....to get close to hear their speaking. they are walking the same direction as me......in order of attractiveness... i would give them a 6,7,8. (It turns out they were Korean) its great to find an 8. id take the 7 too. so i do the old walk past, quickly turnaround and employ the white guys speaking korean manouvre. hook line and sinker. never fails really. number closed all 3 and went to class with a sort of smile. because its so easy to do, in england as one of only 2 decent level white korean speaking males i know, its very easy, and when they see my face after hearing me, they are undoubtedly gobsmacked. i guess i didnt really feel that good about it. almost disappointed at the ease of it. i hope as my game improves, when im approaching hotter english girls i wont have the same disappointment at the easiness of the number closing. it seems some great pua's eventually fall foul with the ease of closing, and sometimes claim to lose their true identity. but thats a deeper discussion for another time.

that night was very interesting. went out with my 2 close friends, polished off a bottle of russian standard vodka and 2 bottles of jacques between us, and went to a bar. its was fairly dull and loud and i ended up chatting to my friend who we went to see for his bday. 1 of the originals i came out with had to go home due to alcohol abuse, and me and my friend went upstairs to the union night out to mack. the huge problem with said maccin' was that he knows fucking everyone. i mean everyone. it was ridiculous. i mean its great to show social proof by knowing 10-12 people in the room....but knowing 1/3 is dumb. all the girls i was gamin knew him, and it became an impossibility.

the most interesting factor of the night however, was talking to a group of white english sheffield uni 7's. now i must admit this university is great, it is top 100 in the world rankings by 3 or four different organisations, yet its not top ten. but some of the girls that go here believe themselves to be incredible. its not oxford. Anyway i was talking to this group of girls, and i must have said something to annoy one, maybe an over neg. because she was very bitter. a 7/10 blonde. she basically said along the lines of "why you talking to me, you're not good enough for me, im too good for you, how do you not know this" this was said among the group of girls for all to hear. I was dumbfounded. Im at a point where rejection isnt that bad anymore for me, but when its this strong and open, it does have a profound effect. this is where real inner game comes from guys. you cant buy this stuff and it takes years to develop. i wanted to say something along the lines of "listen darling, im at ur university too, but unlike you i already have a high grade BA at said university, plus i speak a second language and im a professional breakdancer, you are the one who is truly not good enough for me." (i realise now these 3 points are part of my staple which gives me strong inner confidence). But rather than getting angry at her and showing her any cards i have. i simply didnt. there could have been all manner of horrible things i could have said to her, but i let it fly. i thanked her for her being her wonderful self and moved on .

then came the next part of the night...awesome. its a maneouvre i call the "kebab shop sweep". its trademarked by me ;). i managed to get chatting to a girl while i was ordering a burger, (7.5/10 medical student) she lived near me, so we went back to my apartment "for food" even tho we ate stuff. i cooked us a meal that i cook all the time so i know its a good choice, overboiled potatoes in my drunkenness however, and floated into my room, we ate the meal, kissed, and she nearly put out. i wasnt truly bothered about her putting out to be honest though, its hard to sleep next to someone in a single bed, i had to kick her out at 8am. she only lived around the corner.

Next day, i woke 4 hours later and went inquiring to friends as to whether anyone wanted to go to salsa. turns out no one did. i went alone. it was incredible. every girl was an 8 and there were some absolute stunners. the best thing is the girls constantly rotate, and physical contact is immediate, so i was able to simply use my natural charm. meeting girls in a situation like this is so much easier, no openers needed, in a safe comfortable environment, under the guise a mutual want to learn salsa. (i did actually want to learn salsa) needless to say i picked the finest girl out of all of them got her number, kissed her once on the lips and shes coming over tuesday for "food".

saturday night i just called my fuckbuddy over. she freaked me out a bit when i woke to her staring at me while i was sleeping.....she said i had a pretty face. is that weird? i think its weird. anyway i couldnt kick her out until 2pm...shes so hot.

then i called up the girl from the friday night the same night, reinforced the kissing and stuff, but paying for it now. my lips are sore. all in all a good weekend, 2 or 3 serious potential targets to fully close on this week.

lets hope the night game goes well tomorrow.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 5:49 pm 
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excellent mate. I'm looking forward to meeting you socially.

My friend shagged a girl from North Korea - he claims that halfway through he shouted "who's your Dear Leader now?!?!"


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Interesting...I live in Leeds, and do very well. If you guys ever want to come out in Leeds let me know.


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You guys seem to have some awesome tekkers.

im at the uni of sheffield as well and would love to come out and learn with you guys as im new to the game.

there are so many hot girls at the uni of and some even fitter ones at Hallam!!

Drop me a PM if you fancy it.

Cheers.


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the second im back in the north, im hittin you brothers up


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I'm from Sheff - like the other guys have said, hook me up when uni starts again/


(good tekkers too btw)

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Ended up in Sheffield Saturday night. Went to a Viper rooms, Soyo and Embrace? My friend runs nights at these places so got all the luxuries. Got one of the dancers numbers at Embrace, pretty cute.

Out in Sheffield Thursday, think it's a chinese party kind of thing lol

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Anybody in Sheffield Rotherham Doncaster Barnsley Worksop South Yorkshire interested in sarging winging let me know. Experience gamers and newbys welcome.

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2014 5:45 pm 
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Hey.

I am interested. I am new in this and I live in Sheffield. How to contact you? Can you leave your mobile or e-mail?

All best
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Hey fellas theres a new Sheffield Lair on facebook with over 200 members. We have dudes from all over yorkshire on there who go out regularly. message me on here if you want in :) Its a private group and nobody can see your in it or any posts, totally private.

Peace :)


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