Hello guys,

I was just reading the PUA forum and I began to get into the vibe of going out and do some field-testing! I couldn't go out at the moment as I dont have a car available and my friends are all heading off to uni / college tommorow so I came up with a solution.

Facebook gaming!

It's honestly the thing I'm worst at, and I've tried to work on some direct openers I recently heard off, it's heavily inspired by Bobby D and I'm shocked as to how well it worked, Do not forget, I'm from Belgium, she was from USA, She had a boyfriend and she was 3 years older then me (I'm 21), this girl was definatly worth an 8.

I did this twice and it worked perfectly on both girls.

Here we go!

(Added her on facebook as complete stranger and 2 seconds later...)


Me:
Heya (Her name), there's something I'd like to share.


Her:
sorry do i know you?
sorry if i do i have terrible memory


Me:
Hello there, and no we have not met .. yet, but there's something I wanted to tell You.


Her:
umm ok


Me:
I would swim over the ocean with little cuts all over my body, a dongbell around my scrotum with an overweight panda on my back, just to have dinner with you over SPAM on a dial-up number.
& dont forget though, I'm from Belgium.


Her:
wow! you really are into the valentines spirit
but i hope you wouldnt harm yourself like that


Me:
Well, as You can see i'm a straight-forward & honest guy.. So I'll keep it that way, But I do truely believe that whatever you live for, is worth ''dying'' for.


Her:
very true. but i am fairly sure that you are not living for me so please dont 'die' for me
but its good to be passionate about things [:)]



Me:
Well thank you for acknowledging my ideals, I'll let You in on my secret that keeps me running, I'm an adventerous person and I like last minute decisions, when it comes down to girls, I'm also tempted to make a very fast call. There's something about you that took my breath away from the first minute I opened my facebook browser [:)]


Her:
how did you see me on facebook though? you are very sweet
and being adventurous is good
makes life interesting


Me:
Well, it was pure coincidence, it pretty much felt like faith had brought me to you [:)] , I was just looking up on my friends profile if she behaved well this weekend, and I noticed that You were friends with her.. So after a good amount of lets say 5 seconds I decided I had a new goal to fight for [:)]


Her:
haha awwah thats a sweet story
but unfortunately i am already taken
but it was nice to talk to you
you seem like a really nice guy



Me:
Well taken is a very strong word often used in a wrong way, life is always open for changes, I believe a person should always choose the path that he/she thinks is most suitable to create the best possibility, I respect Your choice and I'm grateful for your kind words, It seems I will not be sailing the sea tonight [^_^] .


Her:
that was a very nicely worded response. you have a way with words
i hope you have a lovely evening on dry land [:P]
Im going now. i was nice to 'meet' you
have a nice evening [:)] byebye

If I lived in USA I'm 100% sure I'd be drinking coffee with her the day after. I obviously let it go cause I live so far away, I was so eager to see how well my theory would work.

bro no offense but her response sounded mostly out of genorosity.

Stuff like that rarely works here in the States. It gives too much of a nice guy impression.

you can clearly tell the disinterest by her responses to your messages

Okay I'm going to have to agree with the above statement. I'm not great at PUA, but I have been working on my FB game and from what I've found at least with the american girl's I game, there is a much more readable response which is often the Bitch Shield.

Some tips:
It helps if you use a neg based opener - something that will put her on edge or piss her off. This serves two purposes. It garuntees you a response and it immediately sets the bar to guage the conversation. The biggest thing about facebook is that you only have soken game with vauge IOIs such as smiles and lols. I you can establish that the girl is feeling emotion you can work with it otherwise you've just goy pointless small talk. My favorite for valentine's day has been, "roses are red, violets are blue, I suck at poems, nice tits"

After this playfully neg the hell out of her, make her want to please you. But try to keep it joking. If she's loling or :)ing or hahaing or any other emoticon for that matter you're doing well. Even a is good. She is going out of her way to tell you how she feels, but pay attenttion to context it may be a real or a sarcastic one

Takeawy is also very useful here, generally you want to reply as quickly as they do. But occassionally you can take five or six minutes extra when the conversation is going well. It draws her to realize how much she's enjoying talking to and makes her want you to respond, thereby building an attachment

Finally FB game does not count unless it ends in a meet-up or a #-close, This may take time as most girls are very against giving thier number out online. Be patient sometimes it's a day, other times it's couple of weeks.

Also I find that it is always helpful to be busy. By this I mean never let her leave you set time constraints based on the conversation and let her know "I've gotta go in a little bit" then as you near your limit start looking for ways out , unless you are going to close. If you are just ending a segment of this gaming you want to end on something that causes her to have an emotional response. If you are closing, that is your out. The #-close i use is, "I've gotta get offline, but I can text/talk. If a certain woman was to say post her number, I guess I would be obliged to text/call her, wouldn't I?"

So far I've had about a 50% sucess rate. I attribute this to the fact that I've tried to close too soon. the longer I take the easier it is for me to make a #-close.

Hope I was helpful

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Most of my hook-ups have been from facebook, and I am a short 5'6" American Guy who can get (I dont normally use the number system) Hot HB's with ease. I find it easy, because It's easy to be fun and flirty over the internet without having to deal with actual reacions. Good practice, until It actually leads to girls begging to come over or wanting you to come over, lol.

In my head I have a general idea of what I need to do to make her attracted to me. And you did everything I wouldnt do, lol

1. I would never ever ever seem needy or idolize, worship, put her on a pedastool, etc to her. I routinely tell girls off to make them seem like Im not into them -- while being overtly sexual at the same time

2. I am never serious. Always playful and joking, Be playful, call her. Knucklehead, dork, mellonhead, goober, pumpkin, sweetpea, etc.

3. Almost Most importantly have a profile that conveys what kind of person you are. I happen to go on alot of adventures so I make sure my profile pictures convey my personality in an instant. Fun. (Skydiving, scuba diving, with other girls, etc )

4. Most importantly separate yourself from other guys who message her. Guys who message girls generally say the kind of shit you say I think. But Im not sure Im not a girl. Instead of being nice my approach is borer line 'your so mean today' to 'you are so funny'

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Haha, appreciate the hints, but I actually forgot to state my purpose with this conversation.

I know the basic rules of routining etc, but I really wanted to try something different out, the opener was actually pretty great and I'm sure that I could've adjusted the entire conversation to way less-needy into fun/cocky etc. I just noticed her responds and felt like trying out the ''Omg i'm like the sweetest guy alive'' way.

The point is though, that it's not the words i've used, but the way I used the words.

She was just humoring you. She wasn't really interested.

Honestly, it pretty much goes against the main ideas of PU. You cant know for sure if she was being nice... which she probably was. If it was person to person at a club or something and you said that, there is a very low chance of it working, she could've blown you off straight away especially if she was like worshipped or something lol .. you basically handed your balls over to her on a platter mate