Who? : Dusty an 18 year old college freshman.I like to think of myself as a pretty fun guy,cocky but fun.Im fairly goodlooking lol some might differ though.
I've never really had any problems attracting women but after a few bad break-ups and relationships that just went all haywire I decided to learn more about the arts of seduction, and to pick-up women effortlessly lol.

How : I got introduced to Pick-Up through Style's book "The Game" and i also watched Mystery's Vh1 show "The Pick Up Artist". Im currently busy with "The Mystery Method" and have been sarging for quite a few months now with mixed success.Im by no means a PUA yet, I still have heaps to learn,thats why I thought It'll be good to start a journal Highlighting the good and the bad,highs and lows, Successes and Rejections.

Goals : I have quite a few goals,short-term aswell as long-term. for starters I still have AA (approach anxiety) , though not as much as before but it's still there. Id like to broaden my social circle,seeing im in Uni that shouldn't be a problem. My Inner-Game is also a tad short of where I want it to be, so I gota work on that to.Becoming a better person is my ultimate goal, being able to walk into any place, talk to anybody and be comfortable with it.

Goal list for to 2012 : - Minimize my AA
- Build my social circle
- Get 30+ lays this year (lol Optimistic much)
- Build inner-Game
I'll try to update this journal after every sarge and approach.All advice is welcomed and I mean straight talk no bullshit advice. Im a big guy i can handle it.

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Update : Okay so this will be the first update on this journal (Lol obvious much).
I recently had lotsa tests and assignments to do, plus the flu-bug grabbed a hold of me.Meaning I didn’t go out and sarge much. But that’s over now,I got a clean bill of health and Saturday night it was ON!! I went out with a few mates, best wings I’ve ever had plus they’re more experienced than me so im learning a lot.
The Players : Joker, Dusty and Max
Where? : Pubs and clubs in and around the George area.
Targets : HBs!
Goals of the Night : To do as much cold approaches as possible,minimize AA, try to #- and kiss.

We started of with our usual Newbie Challenge,walking around the industrial greeting randoms. Just to get into a conversating,less AA, pick-up mindset.The first Pub we hit,Joker had lotsa social proof there (He used to work there), anyway we grabbed a table near to the bar and ordered some drinks.While waiting we start to discuss pick-up and the logistics for the night. As we’re doing this a three set approaches the bar (a Guy, and two HBs 7&7.5). Joker decides to open them with one of our openers. And they hook easily..

Joker : Hey you guys look perfect,not too weird.. so can I get your opinion real quick?

The two HBs seems hella plaful and socially, : Haha ofcourse we ain’t weird.. so fire away!
Joker : well uhm.. I hope not. Anywho,with it being a leap year and Valentines becoming MANentines,do you kids think It’s cool for girls to get on their knees and propose?

AMOG : Haha I say OFCOURSE it’s cool!! I mean it’s only fair to let them pay for the engagement ring we pay for the whole wedding anyway.. I’ll be right back. (And he go order their drinks) leaving Joker alone with the two set.

HB 7.5 : MANentines? Hahaha. But Nah-nah I have to disagree, it’s not cool! That’s your job! No way im getting down on my knees!

Joker : That’s what Im saying, but my buds over here disagree..

As Jay is saying that he pats me on the back,indicating the set is ready for me to enter.

Joker : I think I’ve just won!
Me : Yeah Yeah so what? I always win anyway..
I smile, extend my hand and introduce myself..
HB7 : So you really think girls should propose? Jerk!
Me : Woah! So I’m a jerk for having an opinion? Wow,the female word for Jerk!
That got them cracking.. both of them slapping my arm.. Hb7.5 : That’s the nicest way I’ve ever heard someone call her a bitch!!
Me : Oh so she gets it a lot? Go figure..
HB7 : no I don’t! and I wasn’t a bitch, was i?
Joker : Haha.. nah he’s just kidding..
Me : No I’m not! (I give her this huge smile,which gets me another slap on the arm, and she smiles back) Forgiven?
HB7 : Maybe…
Joker : Oh get a toilet!!!
Now we were rocking this set!
Me : so are you kids from around here?
HB 7 : I don’t know.. what do you think? (playing with her lipgloss) I took it as an IOI
Me : Well going by the supersize handbag, (I grab her hand,Kino) the black nails (their guy friend pitch up with their drinks)
Joker goes : and the apple Martinis, we’d say you’re definitely not from here!

They were laughing their asses off!! From there comfort was established.We started chatting bout various topics.. and we found out that the AMOG and HB 7 was actually siblings, and he wanted to try his luck with the HB 7.5,which was Joker’s target! Joker number closed the dude first,at this point I go over to Max who was busy with a one set to see if he needs any assistance which he didn’t.
At this point the club really fills up,the Girls to guys ratio was overwhelming almost three girls for every guy. I decide to open a two set with our opener, but they didn’t hook at all so ejected almost immediately, did a few more cold approaches just saying “hi” cause at this point I was not feeling that opener all that much. Went back to the table where Joker and the Three set was at.. and engaged in some more chit-chat the HB 7 was auto-streaming IOI’s all over the place.. Joker hints that I should Isolate (Coz I was getting to caught up in the moment,running compliance tests and shit)
So I take her hand and go : Hey guys im taking her,Come on!
AMOG : Haha you can abduct her bro, no prob just don’t expect any ransom..
HB7 : Where you taking me?
Me : are you coming?
HB7 : Okay,okay..

We go to the bar counter, where there’s a screen.. and im amazed by her complying to my every command.
Me : OMG, they lost!
HB7 : haha seriously? guys are unbelievable! You brought me over here to watch soccer?
I grab her by the waist.. no I brought you here to do this.. KISS-CLOSE!!! We make out right in front of the counter.. AND I GOTTA SAY THAT GIRL CAN KISS!!
Me : 9.5!
HB7 : Haha What?
Me : Yeah, you would be a total 10 but..
HB7 : But what?
Me : Lil less tongue? Otherwise your awesome..
We exchange numbers and have another steamy make out session, before Max text me.. it’s time to roll.


Max also kissed close one of hes girls, Joker said after I left the AMOG cock blocked him the whole way but he did manage to Number-close though..
So the next few clubs we hit was pretty dead, but none the less we cold approached as much as we can, and building social proof everywhere.I would type more conversations but as the night progressed we got pretty wasted.



Points to work on : I gota be playful when opening,initiate eye contact before opening (Opening before opening) Kino Escalate faster,work more on bulding comfort asap… sort out logistics thoroughly. And be a better wing, cause Joker could’ve Kiss-closed if one of me or Max distracted the AMOG.


All in all it was a fun Night we had success as well as failure! First set was the best set!

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Good first night man, seems you have quite good natural game as you flirted enough for her to allow you to kiss her at the bar.
One thing to remember with kino escalation is the "2 steps forward and one step back" as this will help you get past the girls who rarely make out with guys they've just met.

Keep it going man!

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Thanx for the advice mate much appreciated.
Yeah I'm formiliar with the Push/pull and Bait, hook, release techniques.. but as i said, i tend to get caught up in the moment. I gota work on that, and isolating my target faster.. for now that's my main areas of concern.So ima be out sarging everyday!!

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Damn nigga, u macked pretty hard.but u should try to not get caught up in the moment like u said happened that happens to me all the time also. but your pretty good and i fell bad for your friend because of the dumbass cockblocker. if u call that bitch for a date you might be able to fuck close.

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2 Bottles Shawty, 2 Bitches Waitin, 2 10's thats a win/win situation.

Well taking nothing away from my game or anything, i do think that Martinis and natural attraction played a huge role in that kiss-close. Anyway I texted her last Friday for the first time a week after the initial number and kiss close.

update :

Me : Wow.. just made her grab her fone. how awesome am i?

She : LMAO!! Ey for your info it was already in my hand uhm.. who's this?

Me : uhm ouch I'm kinda hurt Jerk!!! (guess it’s like our inside joke now)

she : Hahah aw.. it's about time!! i thought you lost my number..

Me ; well to tell you the truth i did.. but i found it didnt i? So anything excitng?

She : mmm guess you did.. and nah just gona hang with my girls.. thats bout it.. what bout you?

Me : Lol well in that case my weekend will totally beat up your weekend.. first round knock out!! we goin camping in the midlands.. bucketlist stuff.

She : sounds like fun. we never do that stuff like ever.. when you comin back?

Me : probably Sunday Night . maybe we could like hang sometime grab a coffee or something ?

She : Yeah, Definitely just say when and where.. and im there 

Me : lol Haha You’re easy much.. Maybe next week Thursday or Friday, I got a test on Wednesday. Anyway I’ll let you know…

She : I’m not easy Jerk… just excited lol okay and I don’t like being stood me up skipper… remember I know where you live


I text her Thursday to make plans for Friday, for some reason she couldn’t make it, but nonetheless Saturday we met up at Mug and Bean for coffee, IOI’s was flowing from the word go… We chatted for like 45mins, I took her to the Barnard gallery (going with the multipal dates in one concept), cause arts is her thing. Me, personally know shit bout art. I fell back to my time constraint and she also had to go and get ready for some wedding. We didn’t make out once during the lil hang out cause I was using push/pull stuff anywho.. as we said our goodbyes we liplocked for a few minutes.


She : (arms wrapped around my neck,mumbles between kisses) I had a great time, best really… We should like so do this again!!

Me : I don’t know ey.. (smiling)

She : What? Come on!

Me : Nah I’m just thinking next time.. your place, you cook and I could get some DVD or something..

She : I’m not working Friday, so maybe Thursday night?

Me : Maybe Thursday night!!

Look it’s clear that this chick is into me and the only thing that can stop me from F-closing here would be me.
I didn’t kino enough during the date, (I use that word loosely) and might have done too much push/pull. But I think it was really great first meet up.

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