I rather enjoy letting the guy do all the work. By the time he's ready to have "the talk" I'm fed up anyways, so I let him tell me all the silly little things that are sposed to make it easier on me...

-I'm a great girl
-We had fun
-Not where he thought he'd be at this point
-He's sure my friends are great, but he and they don't click
-He's sure my family is great, but he's not on board with the whole "fam" thing

On and on. I don't say anything, except "ok" and "i understand" and "you're right".

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It's a huge mistake to think that a woman isn't just as unhappy as you are in a relationship. My advice is to try to work on things before it gets to the sad aforementioned point. If you both keep failing and find no resolution to your issues, then its time to part ways. Try to keep it simple like " Hey, I know we were trying to work shit out, but I'm still not happy. I think we should just go our separate ways." Most women WILL want to work it out before the inevitable happens. Luck to you!

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What about if you and the girl are working together, plus on the top of it she has to listen to you at work because you are her superior, how to play that?

This sounds strangely familiar lol

My ex cheated on me.... i calmly said that i cant have this shit, or a girl who disrespects me, she knew what she had lost.

Anyway, every time i get bored i text her and end up shagging her.....

bad idea? i have no feelings for her what so ever now, but think she does. I'm only doing it because she lives upstairs and shes there when im bored. Im moving out in 3 months so won't see her again, im uessing that will be the drop? or do you think i should just totally not see her?

Thing is its so convenient fucking her, and she misses me, and im never going back!

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