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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 10:30 am 
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Wasn't sure where to put this, apologies if its in the wrong spot.

Just to give a bit of background, I've always been good at picking girls up in clubs but the whole dating scene has never been my strength.

Met a friend of a close female friend last week at a club, had my A-Game going and cruised through to C1 that night. No k-close, only due to an interruption (the club closed) and our lifts going separate ways.

Made contact (online) a couple of days later. Turns out she is going overseas in the next few days (after the meeting). To gauge her reaction, said that I didn't really have time to take her out before she left. She showed she was super-keen on a meet-up so I got her to send through her phone number, called and organised something (after work, we both had functions but agreed to meet after).

Went pretty well, went back to A2-A3 for a while when we first met to establish it wasn't just a drunken illusion, then some great convo at the date location, tons of kino. Went back to her house, more good convo, great kino, had her pleading for some action for a bit (from her actions, not her words), then a pretty intense k-close / make-out session for 20 minutes, once again interrupted (I had something on in the morning so had called a cab just before the k-close). Definite day 3 intentions at this stage from both parties.

Question is, she's off overseas for 2 months now, what sort of contact should I be making? Online messaging is our only point of contact, so I'm thinking intermittent messages, one a couple of days after she leaves and then every couple of weeks from there. Thinking I should turn up the sexual framing too to build some serious tension for when she returns.

Unique situation for me, thoughts appreciated!


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 2:16 pm 
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Sounds like you have a good game plan in mind. Like you said message every few days. Convey that you are busy in your messages to keep the DHV going so she remembers why she chose you. Build the tension and work the plan, and have fun doing it! 8)

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:02 am 
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Sounds like you have a good game plan in mind. Like you said message every few days. Convey that you are busy in your messages to keep the DHV going so she remembers why she chose you. Build the tension and work the plan, and have fun doing it! 8)
Thanks dude, she's ended up messaging me first so that definitely makes things a lot easier.


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Always glad to hear when things work out for my brothers in PUA! Keep it up man, you can get her, all you need is the right attitude and a smile! 8)

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 06, 2007 6:48 pm 
TT4L, welcome to the forum.

If I'm understanding correctly, you didn't f-close her before she left?


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:53 pm 
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Thanks guys.

Yeah, right you are L.A. Tripp, so gotta be careful not to get too friendly.

The sexual tension still seems to be around so first time out when she gets back will have to go for it.

Hopefully it works out because her friend (also my close friend) will hear about everything... hahaha.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 12:29 am 
There's no way you should have not f-closed that last night. Work the next day or not, cab or not, you should have done it. It will be difficult to keep the window open while she's gone.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 5:39 am 
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Might be right but gonna take the challenge head on. Will let you know how it goes.


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