Ok so this chick that is my neighbor and I went out for a lunch date that ended up extending to like a 4 hour hanging out date with multiple locations and blah blah...

We had lunch, went to the mall, shopped for jackets, went for coffee (5 min), went for a 10 min beach walk and enjoyed riding my motorcycle trhough out the entire date. She was having a good time it seemed, teasing me, laughing and while we were riding the motorcycle she would stick her hands from behind me into my jacket's pockets and ocasionally lean into me, shit,once or twice she even put her chin on my shoulder. I am almost certain she want something...

After the date we came to my house so that I could show her something really quick(text book game) and I could feel her vib'n. She was the one who said let's go for lunch so I assumed she had plans later that night. So I did not ask her to stay for a movie or anything. The thing is that the date went well but we did not kiss nor did we set up another date.

here is the texting that went down after the date
me- Not to give you a bubble head, but I was so drawn to you. It was weird. I just wasn't prepared. (I felt as if she wanted me to kiss her and I did not). I had a good time.
her-dont worry, my head won't blow up, I hear it all the time!! Prepared for what? I had a good time too!!!
me-Prepared to be drawned that way. U r soooo conceited, I shouldn't have mentioned.
her-I was teasing you!! I am not conceited!
me-oh, you got me...I hate texting (we had discussed earlier how easy it is to misenterprate textes)
her-ok from now on ";)" means teasing. lol
me-ok

How can I follow up, when, should I set up a date soon, wait for later, overthink it,
what is next, I know I should have kissed her and I am nervous that she is thinking that I have no balls...

Hey,

Do you what you feel like doing. Its important to note that this girl is your neighbour, so if things do go as planned that you may have to see her over and over again.

It is only this time, and this time alone, that I will advise you go indirect on her. This has already been the case since you guys went on a "lunch date." You two had a good time, keep rolling on that concept. Just be like it was cool vibing the other day, let's do it again. Since she's already been in your house, she will feel comfortable coming over again, for like a movie or something.

Me, PERSONALLY, would avoid expressing emotion to soon with this one, once again for the purpose of refraining from DIRECT.
If you pay attention to where you said "I was so drawn to you," she replied with "I hear it all the time."

This reaffirms the whole idea of going indirect for now, once you have her invested or "in" then you can go all the direct you want.

Hope this helps,

Samex

PS: if you wondering what the difference between direct and indirect gaming is, just search it up on this forum. Plenty of threads to help you in that department

thanks for your prompt advice bro. I texted this chick earlier and when she called me back the convo just kinda lead us to
me-well I am going to be around if you are not doing anything we can hang out if you want
her-huh... sure, I have a couple of things to do and then that's it, I am not doing anything.
me-Naw, that's cool, just call me later when you are not busy if you want
her- ok talk to you then

So I guess it'll be fine, I don't know if she just did not want to say no or if she really wants to chill. She was the one who called me so I don't know, we'll have to wait and see.

I am researching the direct and indirect stuff right now

thanx for reading this and for your valuable input