hi guys,
i'm not a pick up newbie, but i'm new in this forum (stay abroad) and i need help.
me: 34 years, boring relationship, two little childeren; goal: start up a new life with another HB
the girl 32 years, just left her boyfriend, 1.5 year relationship
the situation:
just two days after her relationship break up i run into her (or the other way round...

we met two times and it was awesome. some humor, same interests e.g. we had also sex.
before i met her the second time she wrote me a sms that she wouldn't like to see me and i should care about my family. but it also ends up in the bed.
lbnl she said to me, that she had to care about her broken relationship first. (in my opinion: standard excuse) the second reason is much more difficult: she said to me, that she had attended her last boy friend through a similar situation: he left his former girlfriend and it seems to be a hard time, cause he wasn't straight and he almost has feelings for her ex.
this happens four weeks ago: since this time we have freeze out and i didn't call her. she does the same. i have some clothes and some other things in her appartment.
so guys:
pls help me. what should i do. hopefully i find some who had experenced a similar situation.
sorry for my bad english but i'm a foreigner. maybe one of your octoberfest-freinds...
thx a lot!!!!