The situation is pretty self explanatory. We met on a dating site, she's exploring her options. We've had one good date and have another planned. I'd like to win her over from the (probably 5) other guys she's seeing.

any tips, links to good advice on the subject?

Hey in my experience if you care too much it all goes to shit.
My tip is go to other dates!!!the reason why
1. By Having a sort of dating portfolio, you r not gonna give a fuck too much about the single investment and therefore you dont become needy and you can play your best game.
2.dont make it explicit,but if she understands that you also have options, she is gonna c u as a bigger challange, and I tell something, girls dont wanna lose challanges;)

So keep dating others , play your best, and let the chips fall where the may

It's good for a woman to feel like she's competing with others in much the same way you feel right now. Act like you have other shit going on - don't make it come off like an act. She has to feel it's real. Women need to feel like they are chasing the guy who all the chicks want.

The best way is to actually get other shit going on. Some tips:

-When she texts wait at least as long as she took to text back.
-Actually try to make your response smaller than hers in general - no bullshit.
-It's all about sub-communicating that you are *slightly* less invested in her than she is in you.
-Sometimes don't answer her calls, or take a while to get back to her.
-When she gets emotional and asks shit like why it took so long, etc, remain calm, brush it off. Act like you were doing something usual even if you were trying to get with some other hottie.

Although you want her to think you are superior, you want her to feel like she's special to you - you have a little soft spot for her even though she's not quite as cool.

Girls really want cool guys. Being cool is just that - smooth. Confidence is something that happens as you keep playing the game. I used to lack confidence so often because I thought women just didn't like me - most of the time they were playing their own little version of the game - "Hard To Get". Women look for love and find sex, men look for sex and find love.

I could keep going, but I've left plenty of advice for one night

Only tip I can give is don't kiss her, your prolly kissing some other guys dick. I've had woman before give me a blowjob before going out on another date like literally hour later. I'm pretty sure the other guys she is "dating" are fucking or doing something physical with her.

If you don't believe me on the blowjob thing, go read it on tucker max, turns out it's a common thing.

prolly not the answer you were looking for but whateves, its a little inspiring.

samex