All right. I had messages a few girls on OKC a few months back. I have met all of them only once. The dates went pretty well. I did not have the chance to escalate to a sexual level due to my timidity and inexperience. Also I got really busy with my research and lost all contact with them. I was never big on texting with them anyway..

Anyway, how do I phrase my message to them again on OKC ? To check if they have any interest I had messaged them from my google voice on New years day. One did reply but she did not have my no stored. One did not reply at all.

What do I do now ?

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Well, first things first, text the one girl your number!

I get why you want to get together with these girls; and its not impossible, but you're technically better off starting fresh.

Its very possible that girl no 2 is not interested, since you didn't keep up with communication. Alternatively, maybe she didn't get your message, doesn't check her VM etc; so send her a text that boosts her ego, and peaks her curiosity for best results. You could say that you dreamed about her, and you couldn't believe the shit that came out of her mouth, etc.

Just remember, its always better to start from scratch anyways, so this is really a win-win.

Good luck!

My advice would be to open up some new conversations with women, rather than resurrecting old conversations that fell by the wayside.

I would also say that your chances of getting a second date are much more likely if you escalate sexually. Because you didn't escalate sexually, it's probably better to start off with a blank slate.

If you do want to resurrect these old conversations, now is actually great time to start pumping up the sexual tension. Say something like “I really wanted to hang out with you again, but I just got so tied up in all the other woman I was dating, that you sort of fell by the wayside. " (Note, make sure that you include the there- some PUAs will say that this is not alpha, but it's also critical that she understands that you're joking here...)

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Points taken. In the hunt for new pussies. I shall send out one mail just to see if it works. Thanks.

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"The winner is the chef who takes the same ingredients as everyone else and produces the best results." ---- Edward de Bono

One mistake you made is sending a message around New Year's. Messages sent around holidays are frequently ignored, due to the amount of personal and family crap people have going on. Holidays are also when lots of guys have spare time to sarge on-line, so your message is getting lost in the wave of messages she is receiving at this time of year. It is hard and fast for me: take time off around holidays.

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