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PostPosted: Fri Feb 10, 2012 2:14 pm 
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I get huge anxiety when I want to Approach girls, in the end I dont Approach because I fear the rejection.

Can anyone please give me some insight and ideas as to a way that I can overcome this fear.


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same i get the same butterflies in my stomach...my tendency is to over think, like "what if this" or "what if that" i would like some insight on this topic as well


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Find a wing. Push each other. Realize that it doesn't matter one bit whether you get rejected. Why does the opinion of random strangers affect how you feel about yourself? Really think about that. Cuz their opinion shoulnt affect how you feel inside.

Start small. Ask somebody for directions (guy or girl). Then ask somebody for directions and make a comment about their clothes, the weather, where you're going, your surroundings or something like that. Then just walk by a girl a smile. Then say hi nonchalantly. Just keep working it on up. Don't think too far ahead of yourself. ONLY focus on the step you're on. If you're opening, then ONLY worry abt opening. Don't worry abt getting her number, don't even worry abt what to say next. If you're having trouble opening, then all that other shit is not going to help you. Right now, you should NOT be concerned with going out and getting girls. You should JuST be concerned with the next step, which for you is opening. Feel free to open the girl and then just fucking walk away. Who gives a shit. You can even do that a few times. Then the next girl, you can open and say something else. Don't be ashamed to take it slow. And remember, I'm serious, right now you are NOT going out to pick up girls. You're going out to get comfortable with the next step. Take the weight off your shoulder of possibly "getting" the girl. You're only trying to open. Then just take it to the next step and keep building it up.

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I get huge anxiety when I want to Approach girls, in the end I dont Approach because I fear the rejection.

Can anyone please give me some insight and ideas as to a way that I can overcome this fear.
even the greatest puas have this fear. don't wait to long and try.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2012 12:31 pm 
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I get huge anxiety when I want to Approach girls, in the end I dont Approach because I fear the rejection.

Can anyone please give me some insight and ideas as to a way that I can overcome this fear.
Well it seems like you have an inner game problem.What you need to do is think about what is so scary about approaching girls and just go for it.

There is no reason to be scared,you just go to a girl and say hi , and that's it.If you can do that , than you can do everything else.If you think saying hi is a bit embarrassing than you could just ask her for directions,and go onward from there.

You need motivation man !!!

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