I kiss closed this girl on Saturday night and got her number. Her annoying friend was being clingy so it was only a quick make out.

I texted her on Sunday evening:

"Hey christina, was fun meeting you last night. Now you've got my number, not too many booty calls please, I've got feelings too!!!! Oli. x"

No response. My girlfriends have told me this is a funny message although girls might find it awkward to respond to.

So I texted her again today (Wednesday):

"Hey, how's ur week going? Gonna hit up X restaurant and Y bar on Saturday. If you can make it, you're invited.

Again still hasn't responded. Both restaurant and bar are cool places.

Any thoughts on where I'm going wrong? What are your best routines for setting up a day 2 after kiss close/number close.

Probably she just wanted to kiss on that party, but didn't want anything afterwards. If she didn't answer you back, big chances that she is not interested in you or that she gave you the wrong number. Your text message was fine, even although it's not my style (I prefer not to text message bullshit but go straight to the point).

If she sends no answer, then just forget about her.

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Hey dipset,

Sometimes girls are just down for that night, they'll kiss and grind all in the name of having fun. It doesn't always mean that she wants to "hang out" or go on "dates."

You've already texted this girl twice, and she hasn't responded, just leave it alone, and find some other girls.

Future note, if you didn't get a chance to build rapport well enough, than its sometimes better to call instead of texting, just so you two can get a feel for each other.

Samex

Hey guys, thanks for the responses. Yeh that's what I think. I didn't talk to her for long (probably around 5 minutes and got her number). Then I saw her on the dance floor, started dancing with her and made out. It was all quite quick so probably didn't build enough rapport for anything else to happen after.

try to meet her again!