Hi, fellow sargers.

Well, I don't qualify as a full-fledged sarger yet, but I'm working on it. I just read The Game, and I'm in the process of reading Mystery's Venusian Arts Handbook.

I never knew there was a structure for picking up chicks. What a revelation, man!

My biggest obstacle for 2007 will be to erase my approach anxiety. Last week, I was shot down badly in a local night club. At first, I was a little freaked out, but then I thought about it. I could have used a come-back line to save face. It would have helped preserve my ego, too. But, admittedly, I have to get over my fear of rejection and regard it as a learning tool.

Anyway, I hope to find some fellow sargers here.

Best,
Film_Man

If you're still suffering from AA, getting shot down is just something you're going to have to get used to. In fact, getting shot down is the reason we feel approach anxiety. It's in the Venusian Arts handbook if you need a more detailed explaination.

I suggest playing Blowout. Approach a set. Try and get them to like you. Then do everything in your power to get blown out of that set. It's a lot harder than you'd think, it erases your fear of shut-outs, and it's a fun thing to do on a lazy Thursday.

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hi guys, i too had a serious problem with approaching girls. though i was on youtube yesterday and searched for seduction school which was a chanel4 proggramme...one guy took 30 minutes to pluck up the courage to ask a girl for a lighter....and that was it, i see this and think im not that bad (not by much, but better than that) it did give me a bit more confidence.... all this imformation openers routines and stuff gives you more confidence..jus go out and try persist if you get blown down then i come back with a neg and turn and walk away,
lol and trying to get blown out!!!! thats so crazy it just mite work....

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