Had some surprises tonight. I checked out a different club. Hung out on the hip-hop side of the club.

Ok, DISCLAIMER . . . I have nothing against black guys. Some of the best guys I've ever met are black. So, with that said, er typed, lol, don't take offense to how I write my FR, lol.

Alright, I didn't expect much "action" from white girls tonight, to be honest. I was experimenting. But, I definitely had some surprises.

There are two sides to this club, and an upstairs. The upstairs simply has a bar and pool tables. One side has a bar, a dance floor, and a stage for a live band. The other side has a bar and a dance floor and they only play hip-hop on this side.

Ok, so, I floated for a big between the two sides when I first got there. It was just too dead to do much at the time. But, while I floated, I opened some sets. In fact, the first set I opened was a 3 set of girls. They were sitting a table, with a tray of $2 shots sitting on the table. Next to them, at another table, was 1 or 2 guys, don't remember which, not talking to them. No problem, and no surprise. I walked up to the girls and opened them. Cool. Started talking to them a bit. One of the girls is 8 months pregnant. She's sitting on one side. The other two girls sat on the other side of the table.

The one sitting the furthest from me asked me to buy the girl next to her a shot. Well, I thought she asked me if I wanted one, so I said no, but thanks. Then, she said, "no, would you buy HER a shot." Then I laughed and said "NO" kind of sarcastically, letting them know that I would NOT be doing that. They kept pushing for it. Now, most guys would have given in. I didn't. But I did keep talking to them. Found out the pregnant one, the babys dad was the bartender. So I said, "have him to buy you the shot." She said they weren't together. That he was a no good bum.

In fact, it was the pregnant one that kept pushing for me to buy the other girl a shot at this point. And, of course, I stood my ground. Eventually, I said, "I don't do anything like that upon first meeting a girl, and even when I do, I don't buy something without getting something in return."

She said, "you get to be seen with us." (Maybe she knows something about social proof?)

I laughed, pretty noticeable too, on purpose, gave her a cocky smile, and said, "I've already got that." I raised my eyebrows, raised my hands palms up, and gave a sweeping look to that side of the club, as if saying to everyone, look at me. She dropped that argument after that, lol.

She pushes again. I say, "if she gives me a kiss, I'll buy her the shot."

She told her friend what I said. Her friend looked at me, thought about it, and said no.

I said, "ok, cool", and walked off. NOTE GUYS: It was NO BIG DEAL to me that she didn't kiss me at that point. It didn't bother me, and the girls noticed this. As was evident later in the night.

In fact, as I bounced back and forth at different times between the sides, to kind of freshen things up for myself, at one point, there was a group of FIVE or SIX guys standing right in front of this table, all talking to each other. IGNORING the girl, LMAO.

The pregnant one ZEROED in on me as SOON as I stepped back into that side of the club. She motioned me over. I walked over to her and she pushed for me to buy the shot again. I laughed noticeably again and pointed to the guys behind me and said, "you've got 5 or 6 guys here. Have one of them to buy you this stupid shot."

She said, "they've got their back to me." Obviously that wasn't completely true, considering they were standing in a circle. So, she was too afraid to talk to them, AND they were too afraid to open these girls.

I said, "I'll make you one last deal. Your friend bounces with me to Fast Eddy's (which is my regular club), and I'll buy her the shot." She considered it, looked at her friend (didn't ask her friend), and said "she's staying with me."

I said, "ok", and walked off.

Now, during this process, I actually tried to walk off several times, the couple of times that I talked to these girls, and the pregnant one KEPT physically pulling me back. She kept telling me to quit being stubborn and things like this. Now, I could have pushed for more of a convo from her, and because she was pregnant I SERIOUSLY thought about it. I would have loved to have fucked her before she gave birth, BUT being 8 months pregnant, I thought that was getting into risky territory.

It's like my wife said when I got home . . . those girls, especially the pregnant one, WILL remember me. I will be stuck in at least her mind, since she's the one that kept physically pulling me back anyway. But, I will be stuck in her mind BECAUSE I DIDN'T do what every other guy WOULD HAVE DONE. I didn't buy her friend the shot.

Ok, now the actual surprising part of the night happened to me on the other side of the club.

I'm out there talking to a couple of guys from out of town, mingling with their group of 6-8 people. A mixed set. One attractive girl out of them all. Found out later she's a drama queen, so I'm glad I didn't bother pushing for much from her. I don't have time for that shit.

So, anyway, I'm mingling with them, getting into the music while I'm mixing. A good song comes on. I hit the dance floor. The group watches me go up. The dance floor at this time is only about half full. I step up there, starting moving with the beat. There's a 2 set of girls actually standing against the wall. I neg them on being wallflowers, to which the 8.5 said they are holding up the wall, lol. I let them stay there. I continue to rock to the beat.

There's a 3 set dancing nearby as well. There are some black guys also standing against the wall, on the OTHER side of the dance floor, being wallflowers.

Well, as I'm dancing, by myself, NOT BEING BOTHERED by anyone, NOT CARING that no one is dancing with me, suddenly I'm "hit" by one of the girls in the 3 set. I stop, say "whoa girl!", and push her off. She turns and looks at me and says her friend pushed her into me. I start dancing again. Backing up slightly. Her friend pushes her into me again. This time I hold her there and dance up against her with my chest to her back. Her two friends dance in front of us, forming a line. Now, ANOTHER two set of girls (not the first one I mentioned) comes closer to all of us. So, I start including them in. I look at the wall and notice the black guys are actually trying to COPY MY moves. They are watching what's going on, trying to copy my moves, and looking at these 5 white chicks dancing all up on me.

Now, that to me is surprising. Seeing black guys trying to copy ME.

So, this continues on for a little bit, till the song stops. I move away from these girls and go back to the wallflowers. I start talking to the 8.5 more. I pull her away from the wall and she starts dancing up against me. She then pulls her friend to dance in front of her. Now, I'm a part of a 3 set.

Now, before this, this same 2 set had another guy get HIMSELF up on this 8.5 and start dancing, pinning her against the wall. But, with me, she came away from the wall and pulled her friend to join in with us, while she danced up against me. This same girl was leaning into me a LOT talking into my ear, being close to me physically.

Guys, that's why you need to take advantage of dance clubs. Kino escalation.

Well, I did all of this in about an hour and 15 minutes. Then, the blacks started FLOODING the club, so I took off. As I've said, I have NOTHING against blacks, but I also knew I didn't stand much of a chance anymore with what my experiment was anyway. And, I had already accomplished what I had set out to do. And even surprised myself along the way, taking two sets of girls, merging them into a 5 set, and taking them away from the black guys that were there at the moment, and other white guys that wanted to be "hood".

All in all, a great night, squeezed into just over an hour, lol.

BTW, I still looked a bit like rudolph the red nosed reindeer tonight, and still pulled this off, lol.

Haha awesome field report mate, pretty entertaining. That does seem strange that some black guys in a hip hop club were copying a white boy's dance moves. I thought they were meant to epitomise rythm?

So you have a fetish for pregnant chicks and are married in an open relationship where you actually discuss your sarging attempts with your wife?
Sounds like you lead a pretty interesting life .

One question though - how'd you learn how to dance well? Its all well and good to hit up dance clubs for sarging (for the kino opportunities), but I don't think it'd work too well if you are a pretty ordinary dancer.

Hey man. Great question. First though, let me say this. LOL, no I don't actually have a "fetish" for prego's, BUT, they usually ARE fucking horny, and I personally have NO problem with giving them what they want. Some guys couldn't do that, but I have no problem with it. Yep, my wife knows about everything that goes in when I'm sarging. The goal is to actually bring home females to JOIN us. Yep, pretty interesting life, lol.

Yeah, I thought black guys were supposed to epitomise rhythm too, lol. That's partially why that point of the night surprised me.

How I learned how to dance. lol. Well, I just started going to clubs, watching people dance, TRYING to dance myself, getting slightly laughed at and ignored, but didn't let it bother me too much, and watching music videos at home and copying what was on the music videos. Took that into the club, put it together with moves I saw other people doing, started "feeling the rhythm" in my body and moving to it. Voila. Started dancing good enough to get POSITIVE attention.

You just got to start somewhere man.

Hey LA, love your posts - detailed, descriptive, informative and inspiring. Keep 'em coming and thanks!

In my clubbing days I was a pretty decent dancer. I used to practice at home where nobody could see. My friends were pretty accomplished so I integrated their stuff. Later I took salsa lessons and got addicted, ended up going salsa dancing four or five nights a week and escalating to the next level of lesson and persevering with it no matter how frustrating it was. On a good night I'd go to the club early and take a beginner's lesson (7 years later I still take beginner's lessons, there's always something to learn from them) and I'd get into a good flow until I'd be totally on fire by the time the club fills.

The male:female ratio in salsa clubs in Manchester England was decent, so there was always a HB to dance with. One night in Belfast it was even better, I was one of about two guys in the place that could dance, so the HBs (including the professionals) were forming an orderly queue to get dancing with me.

Any time I go to a function where there's a majority of Irish people, I find I'm one of the few guys that can dance, the rest are wall flowers.

Dancing ability is a huge weapon to add to your arsenal, comes in very useful in club settings.

If you want dancing lessons.... Have you seen NAPOLEAN Dynamite?

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