One of the biggest limiting beliefs I've experienced in my life was this age limiting belief. Before when I was about 16-20 I always thought older guys were better with girls because of their age/experience. I always thought that when I was about 21-22 I'd become really good, it would be easier, and if I spent enough time studying it wouldn't be an issue anymore.

I'm 21 now and have been for about 8 months now. Fuck do I feel old now. I'm mainly into alt/emo/scene/metal type chicks and now I'm worried that I'm getting too old to attract these girls.

Does anyone know how to attack this limiting belief? Any advice at all?

You're just little

One of the confusing things about becoming a man is trying to figure out your limits.

Its kind of creepy to think about a 22 year old and a 16 year old because you're at very different stages of your life. You have to decide what you're looking for in a woman. If she needs to have her shit together, then I would suggest going after women who are your age or older.

If you're just looking to have some fun and casual dating, just make sure they're legal.

Game is pretty much universal. Age isn't all that relevant. Most women think they are actually better off with older men than one their own age, so long as the age difference isn't enormous. 18+ is definitely in your range.

I used to also be very into that kind of girl. As I got older, my tastes changed. I suspect yours will too. Don't sweat it!

JPow

Thank you for your advice. I'm definitely only dating girls that are 18+. I think dating anyone younger would be kinda weird. I don't know, I know in reality It's just some silly limiting belief that if I'm 23 some girl that's 19 and alt chick won't like me. I know it's stupid, but it's so real to me for some reason.

Another thing is, it feels like just the other day I turned 16 and I could drive on my own. Then I turned 18 and I could gamble. Now I'm 21 and I can drink. I'm just so worried that life is just passing me by so quickly. I'm worried that I'm going to blink and I'm going to be 80 and shitting myself

Ha!

I think its actually the opposite. 19 year old girls love guys who are 3-4 years older. There may be some initial "why would this guy be into younger women" apprehension, but it will subside once they get to know you.

Good luck!

Hi there.

I know a technique that you can use to eliminate any limiting belief in 20 minutes or so. It's called the Lefkoe Belief Process. It was invented by Morty Lefkoe and I took his official training course to learn the technique. I like helping people, so if you want we can have a chat sometime and I'll help you eliminate this belief once and for all. No charge. Send me a PM to exchange SPAM usernames.

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jeez your making me feel old dude! im 28 tbh i dont give fuck if its an 18Y/O for a one nighter. if shes legal i'd go for it. but you wont be seeing me running around advertising it as a matter of fact in the last few weeks i've K-closed a couple of 18/y/olds. when i was 26 i was constantly banging 18 year olds then again people have told me that i look 22- 23. im just gunna ride this wave as long as i can.

Age is just a number. Maybe its cliche to say but I honestly believe that you are as young as you feel.

It's all about presentation. In the clubs I frequent, you have guys rocking the Ed Hardy shirts and they are pushing 50 to attract younger girls. It's a hilarious thing to behold, but you know what? It works.

Play the part of acting younger and dressing younger, and you will psychologically feel younger, because people around you will treat you like you're younger.

Also, keep in mind that women do have a shelf life. Most girls are hit on continuously from ages 16-30. However, after that, romantic interest from men spikes continuously downward. A man, however, has the exact opposite problem. As we gain power and wealth over the course of our careers, we become more suitable mates: women will see us as better caretakers and subconsciously want to have offspring with us (If the guy has a porsche, he can put our kids through school is what she is thinking.). This isn't gold-diggerish, it's a biological trigger.

Pretty cool, in my opinion.

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Thanks guys. I really liked the advice. To me my biggest issues are the age limiting belief and I have another one that. Well, I live in a really small town in Michigan (I think there's 1,000 people here according to the census). So everyone knows everyone essentially. It's a closed system so that plays with me pretty hard as well. (like 'what if that girl knows other girls that I know' type thing. Which where I live happens almost all the time.) I'm planning on moving out to San Diego soon. I know that place is suppose to be huge so I wont have to worry about closed systems as much.

I now see how the age limiting belief works and it's easier now for me to get over it now. I've felt much better after reading everyone's advice.

Hey keep it good and keep it strong.