hey guys

yesterday i had a party at my house and i finally properly met a girl i want to have a relationship with. first impression was good, she had invited me before to her bday and said "ok, but come first to my place blah blah" so she came, talked a little, but a little cause i had to take care of the house.. so i took a taxi with her and her sister (HB10, the one i want to get with is HB7 or so) and well i think i made a good first impression... not much negs.. shes an arsenal fan im a man united fan so dribbled a bit with that, but well in the taxi we saw we had things in common, told her she owed me a drink for my birthday and then she said she i owed her one for her bday (this wednesday) and lent her 50 euros for the rest of the ride (they were going home, i was going clubbing).

i mention the money thing cause maybe i can play around with that. i really like this girl. she doesnt go to my school, so thats kind of an advantage. please tell what i should do.. like text her, not text her, if so when, what to put, should i call her, etc.. i wont be at her bday party cause ill be out of town..

please please please help me i really like her... i said i had to teach her how to play real poker (she said she was better blah blah) so maybe i can get something out of that.. also because shes turning 16, shes kinda with her sister when she goes out except when her sister is with some guy, but generally together when they go out.

thanks guys

IF you're that much into her than I doubt going out with her on a group activity such as a Poker game would be a good idea, after all you "want to get to know her better"
Try taking her out on a drink, you have that much in common.

Just my 2 cents

Erm ok firstly you gave her 50 Euros??? thats what £25 in real money?

That was either a really bold or pretty silly move. The fact that shes just turning 16? how old are you mate? You mentioned clubbing so I'd put you at 18?

Tbh its difficult to advise on this, on the basis that maybe your 16 or 17 aswell - your not old enough to drink and goto a bar if your 18 then go sarging and find another girl, if shes turning 16 and being led around by her sister then you either need someone to take care of the sister or somehow get her on her own. If im brutally honest you need to work on conversation topics football teams isnt the way to go in my opinion... I'm 24 and use life experience to spark up things but at the 16/18 mark she'd be talking about experiences when you were 13-16 ish? etc so thats a toughy and certainly not appealing. I would imagine work is off aswell at 15/16 she most likely doesnt or does very little.

I think that for a HB7 (which is a cute girl) you can afford to do a bit better and let this one slide try not to get stuck in the 'one-itis' group. I think at 16/18 you want to work on your game and get good at making girls chase you and creating attraction... instead it seemed to me reading your post that this might be more of a high school crush... We've all been there, but if you want to become a successful PUA you want to steer clear of that as much as possible... theres millions of girls out there why settle for a 7 at 18 or whatever when you can work on ur game and life experiences, hit a club in 800days time when your 18 (if your 16) or 20 and then be more advanced and smooth talking than half the guys in there?

I'm not trying to put a downer on this and she might be 'the one' for you. But I'd seriously look at your options you've already given her £25 which screams to me "hes given me £25 what else can I get" if the sisters a 10 shes the one to work on, I'd advise not going to her party and make up some stuff you gotta do thats well more important and unavoidable...

If she has LJBF in mind then you'll get your 50 euros back at some point, if shes really interested in you or you really like her say let me make it up to you ill take you out... blah blah without ur sister... if she has no interest in you, you'll most likely hear through the grapevine on how she got drunk and did something or other with someone at the party then you'll know where you stand.

Anyway, good luck with whatever you decide, thats just my opion

Thanks man. She is turning 16, and i just turned 17.. one year? man thats no problem. and about the drinks, please dont judge us, but here in spain if your tall and big you can get into 18+ clubs just fine. The 50 euros was because i had a 10 euro bill and a 50 bill. they had nothing and the cab was already at 16-17 euros, so i said that she would pay me back at dinner sometime sorry but forgot to mention that. i do not think at all 'the one' thingy, i just want to have something with, that is all. of course conversations were deeper than just footy shit. ive been in the game quite some time, and i do not want to use these years as training! i want to have results now! plus it all serves as training my friend. i mean i do appreciate your stuff, but i think you got the wrong perspective of me. i just want to ask her out and get to now her better. probably i myself just twisted this too many times.

her sister is really nice and everything and i dont know why she isnt pursuing a career as a model, but man i want to get with the HB7 sister! its not all about looks man! i dont get with someone just because she's goodlooking! maybe that factor is the one that drives to start talking to her but then i want to get to know her, cause after all, its all about having some fun and getting to know people, not hooking up with everybody.

thanks anyways man