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PostPosted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 7:47 pm 
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Hey guys!

I'm so glad I've found this forum, these topics and threads and stories can really give me strength. :)

My story: I'm 20 years old, kinda handsome, but unfortunately I've never ever had a girlfriend. The spring semester just started in here, and I checked out every girl on Facebook from the future classmate's list. Now there is this little angel, yesterday we had a class together, but among with ca. 400 other classmates. Me and one of my friends set down at the back of the "classroom", and waited to the start of the class. Then suddenly she showed up, and set down not-so-far from us, though out-of-range. I didn't know what to do exactly, so while the lecture lasted I took a glance time-to-time at her. One time she suddenly looked me in the eye, and I totally froze at first, then looked away. So basically this is what has happened so far.

Tomorrow we will have a class together again, but only with ca. 30 classmates around. I know I must talk to her, and I'm constantly thinking of the best thing I could do in this situation.

Here is two of the possible scenarios:

I'm arriving, she's already there, OR I'm there, and she arrives. I go to her and ask:
- Hey! Uh, could you tell me what time is it?
- Umm, sure.
*Suspicious look* Don't you have a phone or something by the way?
- Of course I have, but then I wouldn't had to ask you. *I'm smiling like there's no tomorrow*
- Oh?!
- I noticed you the other day while the lecture. There's something about you, I couldn't stop thinking of you.
- ...


OR

- Hey! Uh, could you tell me what time is it?
- Umm, sure.
*Suspicious look* It's 12:00.
- Interesting. My clock says it's 11:59. *smile*
- What? If you have a clock, why did you ask me what time is it? *possibly smiling*
- Uh, well, I couldn't find any other way to get into conversation with you.
- Huh! *smile*
- You know, I noticed you the other day...

What do you think guys? Am I a fool or what? :D


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:33 pm 
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"Am I a fool or what? " i'm afraid so...nha i'm just kidding LOL :lol:

seriously though,why are you blowing your head off thinking about this girl,like she's a perfect "match" or some shit like that? it's a common mistake,you're thinking about a girl you dont know,and decide she's perfect in general,and/or perfect for you.

learn some stuff from the forum,books etc...
go out and game every girl you think is nice,not this "one" girl.
and if you still decide to go on this one,dont tell her "I noticed you the other day while the lecture. There's something about you, I couldn't stop thinking of you."that's bullshit,you're selling youself short,look up some openers and routins on the forum,there's a whole section for it,dont make your own,not yet.

i hope i helped you man,if you need more specific help,reply and i will gladly offer any piece of info i have :D

and good luck man,glad to have you here! 8)

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Hi! Thanks for the infos! :)

Yea, I know this opener of mine is not that great, basically that is why I asked for your opinions. I read the other thread with your collection of openers, but I just can't figure out which particular one to use.

So, yes, I can use some help with this one! Thank you in advance, mate!

Good to know: she's a cute brunette, one year younger than me, angel-face type. :)

I also know that I shouldn't dream of her, and if this doesn't work out I'll probably forget her. But she's just way too cute to left out of the equation. :P


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:00 am 
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So, yes, I can use some help with this one! Thank you in advance, mate!



I also know that I shouldn't dream of her, and if this doesn't work out I'll probably forget her. But she's just way too cute to left out of the equation. :P

so,you should choose which way is it gonna be,direct and full of intent?
or indirect and hidden intent?

i work in the second way mostly,it's just too much fun,they go crazy and dont know how to handle you :lol:

extremly hot girls need a few negs,before you can talk or else she'll have no respect to you.

here's a link to a list full of them:1-vt9080.html?start=0

so,on a scale from 1-6 there's no need to neg her.

6-8 one neg will do.

8-10 3 negs are a must to have her respect you,and even talking to you sometimes.

so,is she 1-10? you decide.


here's some indirect openers(hidden intent),what about these:


1.COMPLIMENT OPENER
Compliment her on something she's wearing or her hair or just style in general. The trick is compliment openers are to never compliment her on her physical beauty.

You have an incredibly energy about you
You have an artless grace
That's an incredible whatever-x accessory/garment

2.Hey, I need to get your opinion on something. It's very important, and i need a woman's perspective. It's a matter of life and death.. My friend and I were having a debate and your answer could completely change my entire life....

Do you brush before floss or floss before brush? No one knows. :lol:

3.elvis opener
Did you know that Elvis dyed his hair black? What was his natural hair color?
Dirty Blond.
Did you know that Priscilla Presley also dyed her hair?

I don't know what her natural hair color was, I'm not Cliff Claven, but can you picture that these two every couple of weeks would dye their hair black together around a dirty sink in some sick mass-appealing ceremonial ritual? I bet people never considered that before ... did you?

Alternative:
Did you know that all Elvis had to do to get a shag was look directly into the girl's eyes and smile?

Then look into the chick's eyes and smile. :oops:


3. pimp name.
hey.. I'm coming up with a pimp name for myself, which is better: "d-licious dogg"? or "deacon dr. rockafella"?

oh cool... shit, you need one too... I'll call you "devious honey g sweetness"...

4.SPELLS OPENER (Mystery Method)
“Do you think spells work?” Sometimes this will send the woman off on a long blab, but
if the conversation needs to be kept going, the follow-up routine is:
“The reason I’m asking is because my friend over there met a girl in a club last week. He
wasn’t interested in her sexually, because she wasn’t really his type.” (Here the woman
might say “Sure,” in which case you reply “No, really!” and touch her arm or waist.)
“Anyway, she hung out at his house and after she left, he found a metal ring wrapped
around a scroll and some feathers under his couch. Well, he took it to a magick store
and they said it was an attraction spell. And now, the strange thing is, he can’t stop
thinking of her. Do you think it’s the spell or just psychological?”

so,i can write down more,but if you 'get' the point,you can change them,or make up new one's,i recommend you use situational openers,look what she's wearing,her shoes,a braclet etc...
comment on those,i can tell you how great they are,but you need to try them yourself,just believe in what you're saying,and be PLAYFUL! (IMPORTENT)

the thing with indirect is,you just want to ask a qestion,it's supposed to be harmless,with no intent(seemingly)"i need a female opinion"etc..

if you can carry on a convo,you'll do fine with those,but one more tip:

First, find 3 openers and memorize them. Write down a list of openers
(just the headings of each opener to remind you). Next, write down some routines (the
question game, the music game, the photo routine, etc... and then also memorize the kiss close and the # close. Memorize 3 NEGs too
and you are good to go. With the material in your mind, you are prepared to work it in the field until you have the timing of the material down.

be confident.
i also recommend reading the post in my signature,there's a link.


i would say good luck,but nah..you dont need it :lol:
again,if you want more help,i will gladly help.

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You know, the worst thing I'm afraid of is that probably she won't be alone when I arrive to the class. And I definitely will be, all my friends applied for other courses in other times. Because I know that anything I'll say to her, her friends will also hear, and maybe this blocks both of us. :S

By the way, I know an easy opener, just don't know how to continue. I'm 100% sure the classroom will be closed until the teacher arrives, so in the meantime we will wait in the hallway. And there I could just go to her, and ask if she (or they) are going to the same class, and I'm glad I didn't get lost. :D So she'll probably answer that "yeah, you are at the right place, the teacher hasn't arrived yet". But then what? Just say I like her style? :D

Thanks for your help! 8)


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Okay guys! Here are the news: I got acquainted to her, we usually say "hi" when we see each other, yesterday I sent her a friend request on Facebook. Everything was going just fine, or should I say "according to plan". Today I even borrowed her notes. :D The thing is, on Facebook she hides her relationship status from the public. Today, just hours before, she accepted my friend request. Now I can see her relationship status... Yes, you already know what I'm going to say... she's in a damn relationship with a guy...

My life is so fucked... :(

Though somehow this gave me strength... Friday night I'm going out with my friends, and I'll probably talk to any hot girl that appears in my sight. Besides, it'll be much easier, since I didn't want to fuck up anything with this girl I mentioned, since for the next 4 months I'll sit next to her every week. But on a concert nothing really maters, if a girl doesn't like, I'll never see her again...


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Okay guys! Here are the news: I got acquainted to her, we usually say "hi" when we see each other, yesterday I sent her a friend request on Facebook. Everything was going just fine, or should I say "according to plan". Today I even borrowed her notes. :D The thing is, on Facebook she hides her relationship status from the public. Today, just hours before, she accepted my friend request. Now I can see her relationship status... Yes, you already know what I'm going to say... she's in a damn relationship with a guy...

My life is so fucked... :(

Though somehow this gave me strength... Friday night I'm going out with my friends, and I'll probably talk to any hot girl that appears in my sight. Besides, it'll be much easier, since I didn't want to fuck up anything with this girl I mentioned, since for the next 4 months I'll sit next to her every week. But on a concert nothing really maters, if a girl doesn't like, I'll never see her again...


awesome,you're on the right track bro'!

keep us junkys informed :wink:

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