HI all

Well as you can see I am new, so I want to show everyone if they wish to read, the progress of my game. I am focused to become someone who can teach others and push that boundary of getting the female form off of the pedestal.

A little about me. Im a 28 year old guy from Essex. I was a late bloomer, by having a virginity losing fumble when i was 19. As you may have read the ones who lose their virginity towards the end of their teens usually have the approach anxiety and sterotypes towards woman, whereas a lot of people I 'aspired to be' lost theirs in their 14's. I was large and boss eyed in school so a mixture of that with everything else gave me a real bad game.

Anyway moving on since then, Im not the worse off guy. Im not bad looking, I am an architect and I am a front man in a band, but I have had 4 sexual encounters in my life. This isnt in itself bad because 3 of them were a 5 year, 2 year, and 3 year relationship so thats not my problem.

I am newly single and started reading the game, NLP, body language, female pshychology, mode #1 and more and I feel ive missed out on the PUA lifestyle.

so i digress, My main goals from now:

1) confidence - I want to build my confidence up to be able to get into my head that everyone is fighting the human battle
2) M3 model. I want to learn the game in terms of the 9 stages of seduction and everything i have learnt
3) become an venusian artist, able to game and work sets.
4) Gain a bigger social circle with fellow sargers/sharkers. When i have been with a girlfriend i get a drink inside me for confidence and i can easily open a set (although always stop before i became unfaithful). My fellow friends call me the shark because they reel me out and i turn into some kind of bohemian russel brand. But when single however, and it goes cold (Pre selection?)
5) eventually help others to gain the skills not to change themselves, but become better in themselves. Project Chelmsford.

So thanks for reading this. I am going to update this whenever i make progress. For anybody in the essex area who want to sarge let me know and I will arrange something.

STEP 1: Confidence
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For the next two weeks I am going to talk to every person I see, even if its to say hi. I will talk to random HB's to gain intuition into the game.

I will keep you posted! any advice would be great


Jax -x-

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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Ok so my goal from #1 was to gain a bit more confidence speaking to everyone i see or meet. by doing this alone not only do i notice a change in my own self but others are starting to notice.

I work with 4 guys on the top floor of my office and about 6 girls on the ground. 3 of them are HB8 easily, the others prob 5-6.

the women down stairs are now talking to me more and keep play hitting me and saying how 'cheeky' i am since i became single. One said i had my single persona out in the open, which I try to convey as 'dont really give a shit' attitude.

I had a dilemma where i was flirting with one of them, within 5 minutes the queen bee of the group came up and told me to stop flirting with her so I feel i am being talked about downstairs a bit. Since then I kind of froze the one i liked out for a day, but then everytime i walked pasted she would keep eye contact and give me a really nice smile then have a chat etc.

Not a closer but im not doing that in this stage. The queen bee tried to neg me and embarass me but i simply turned my affections on her and she now is always kissing my ass. I feel this is a step towards the game in a small portion.

A HB8 from the office is very dominant. She comes in the office with her tiny waist and large bust and the guys all drool and have small (im a friend) talk with her. I thought it would be the best opportunity to try something out:

Me: Ok i have a challenge. If you can answer me this riddle ill take you for a drink
her: Haha ok and what if i cant
me: then u buy me one..
her: ok sounds good
me: ok you have until 5pm to find a word in the dictionary that is spelt 'incorrectly'
her: right its a deal!

she calls: Ok is it....incorrectly!
me: how did u get that?!
her: haha you said i couldnt google but u didnt mention any other searchers
me: Right ok... yeah you got it right
her: yeah gutted I won.. you have to take me for a drink

BAM!.... got her!..

she keeps coming up every day saying i need to buy her a drink still so i say 'im just treating u mean' to which she then goes into neg autopilot and says 'yeah but who are you keeping keen?!'
I just backfire this with 'aw you can drop the tough act, i wont think any less of you'... followed by her hitting me on the arm and laughing. I am also the only who can disarm her 'im the center of attention' mode with negs.

So hopefully that all made sense, just wanted to keep you up to date with my progress!

In the next couple of weeks, myself and a few AFC's from here are going to hit the field and go sarging so will keep you updated!!


Jax -x-

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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Ok so a bit of a negative one today.

Last Tuesday I went out sarging and it was brilliant.! me and my mate went out and long story short we opened random sets, and some sets he and I knew.. I did the cube trick on 2 girls, one of which is still to this day saying I am some kind of wizard haha.!

We went to a bar towards the end of the night, and there were two guys id met before but they had just been told by a mentor of mine that I was good within the game. So I reckon it gave me a sense of leading the men 'lead the women'.

After that I was way too drunk to remember, I could have kiss closed a couple I think but was too drunk and let my game fly out the window.


On Saturday I was out for my mates birthday and these two guys (both with HB6 girlfriends, were being idiots and hitting on a girl behind the bar, who happens to be a close friend who was clearly not enjoying it, so I grabbed my mate dragged him along to the two HB's who were standing in the corner looking humiliated and played a 'how old do you this my mate is' opener.... within 5 minutes of them giving light kino to me and my mate, the two guys came back. We then walked off. I know the game should be played differently but it was good practice for an AFC.

So this week its all changed... I seem to have become my old nervous self again. It could be down to still sorting shit out with my ex or just where im feeling particularly negative about myself this week, but i feel I have fallen off the wagon.
Last night I didnt drink, and was quite chatty with a few girls but felt I was there to 'impress' them, and my usual 'your so much better than me' attitude came into play.

Now fellow PUA's what would you do now?... Do i read more and take a back seat while i deal with ex shit and then resurface when I am of clearer mind? Do i just keep sarging and working through this barrier? Or do i just take a break fully?


Jax -x-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Quick update!... been a bad week as discussed in the previous post!... Tonight is a change to it all!

Myself, Curiosity, Mr Freeze and S0ulthr0b are meeting to put into motion Project Essex!.. Will keep you all posted but i cant wait!!!


Jax -x-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Well the meet up couldn't have gone betterl last night. Myself, Freeze, curiosity and S0ulthr0b met up to go over tactics and what we all knew about the game itself.

It seems that we all have different strengths and goals, as well as different methods of the game tactic.

Myself and Soulthrob tend to be drawn more down the Venusian Artist M3 model path, while Freeze and Curiosity have a bit of a wider and more natural gaming knowledge.

Will keep you all updated, but now we have met, we plan to take to the field on Friday and improve accordingly..

Project Essex is gonna be massive


Jax -x-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Quick message. Myself,mr freeze, curiosity and sou1throb are taking to the sarge scene tonight... Freeze and curiosity opened up project Essex on Wednesday with a top first sarge so keep an eye out for a field report later

-Jax-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.

Loving the idea of Project Essex and I'm really interested in
getting involved.
My PM isn't working so could you send me some details?

I'm 28, from Essex and SPAM have major approach anxiety but
I do make a good wing man!

Goose13, a couple of us are talking about maybe heading for Chelmsford later. Are you about this evening?

Can't make tonight but here's my e-mail address as pm is still not working.
goose666@live.co.uk

would like to meet up sometime this week though.

Goose. I will be in your town tomorrow night so I will text you. We are probably going to be out WED/FRI/SAT so will keep you posted. We agree it will be nice to meet you first like we all did, its a bit less pressure.


Jax -x-

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From the Desk of Jax
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Co-founder of Project Essex. If your Essex based and want a strong Sarging group behind drop a message to us.