If anyone sends a lady an initial message and she doesn't answer, from either not being interested and/or attracted, or from getting too many messages, does anyone ever send a 2nd one and if so, what do you say, in the subject line and body that comes across as positive and not caring if she answers or not, plus when do you send it, like 1 or 2 months later.

I'm of the view that if you don't get a reply to an initial message, you're probably wasting your time sending a 2nd one a month later, but it could work.

I did once, and she replied to it..funny thing was, I chose to ignore her..maybe I'll reply one of these days when action dies down a bit

What did you actually say in the 2nd message and what subject line did you use.

Follow up responses can be very successful, but it months have passed by between emails, I would just start over from scratch. Attractive women receive 15-20 emails per day minimum, and won't remember one email from a month ago anyways.

Just make sure that you use a subject line that is bound to get her attention. I like anything that suggests doubt, and qualifies the recipient; or something funny and off-the-wall.

If you sent a girl an email with no response, 4-5 days later, you can follow up with a canned email. I won't provide you with the exact wording as it depends largely on your personality, overall message in your profile and what you're looking for, but you can find the rubrics you should hit on in my post here:

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The important thing is that you make it so that its not a big deal. Don't try to make her feel guilty about not emailing you back. Make her understand that you get why she wouldn't email you back. Be fun and playful.

The odds of getting a response are lower on the second email than by emailing the general public, but I've found that canned emails are just as effective as personalized ones, so its worthwhile for economy's sake.

It works all the time, I usually wait about a month or two before I send them the message the second time. It's best that you start fresh, don't mention the previous message unless you guys really hit it off and she FORGOT to reply because she was extremely BUSY or something.

What you do not want to do is send her a message an hour later. This is what most guys do who tried to take the “send a second message out there” route.

A month is fine, though. By then, she'll probably have forgotten who you are. Or she'll vaguely remember, but the amount of time that passed will be significant enough that she has informed a solid opinion of you.

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