Ok sometimes things happen that i dont even think i could make up and this is one of them. I got so angry about it that I had to come on here and vent. Basically im a member on a casual dating site thing, and i was talking to this woman who was 42 (im 21 by the way, but i like women of all ages) it was just casual chat and then she mentioned that her daughter was also on the site (shes 18 ) and the mother said i would be perfect for her daughter and i should start talking to her. so i thought i might as well roll with it.

I started talking to the daughter and we were actually getting on really well and had alot in common, and i started thinking i wanted to meet this chick and it also helped that i thought i had the approval of the mother already! This all happened yesterday and i thought i needed to just do abit more gaming today before i went for the number close etc...

BUT today the mother started talking to me again today and was trying to make me qualify myself to her about why im good enough for her daughter etc. i went along with it for abit, but i thought im not gonna play this shit for much longer and took abit of a stand. The mother then went on to say that ive come across as cocky and her word is law and shes gonna tell the daughter to stop talking to me and shes said ive blew my chance with the daughter etc etc. It makes me angry that the mother appears to be using the daughter as an asset, an asset that has been taken from me.

I havent said anything to either of them since, but I know the mother has told the daughter not to speak to me. Is there anything I can do to continue this with the daughter? what sort of thing could i possibly say? more than anything i just dont want the mother to have ''won'' this battle. This is just insane and im so fucking angry

Thanks

Rokkettzz

Forget it. Too many to be had to get hung up.

That's pretty strange.

Well you don't know that the daughter actually listens to the mother. You hear about girls dating certain guys in order to rebel against their parents. block the mother and see if the daughter is still responding if you want.

Although it wouldn't be the first time an older woman pretended to be a lot younger and faked a bunch of people ie Catfish movie.

Also are you sure they're even actually related. Has the daughter mentioned the mother in any way?

Try just continuing to game the daughter as if nothing happened with the mother. As we know, if a parent tells their child not to do something, that's all they then want to do lol. For all we know the mother could just be bluffing and has actually said F-all to her daughter in the hope you'll just go down quietly.
If after messaging the daughter, the daughter says nothing about the thing with her mum, then I think you can relax and the mother was just bluffing. If the daughter messages you back saying her mum said not to speak to/that you aren't supposed to talk to you, I'd say something like "I'm not the kind of guy that will stop talking to someone I'm beginning to like just because someone else says 'I'm not allowed'. I've been enjoying getting to know you and intend to continue doing so." so something like that, if the mother sends you a message back you can just send the same message to her and swap out "you" for "your daughter".
You may have lost the battle but the war ain't over dude

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