this is where i ALWAYS mess it up, met this girl last week but i was actually puaing another girl our group was out with, so i actually didnt even notice this other girl, anyway, i saw this other girl in a bar the other night and she was giving me all kinda signs, gazing at me, using any excuse to come talk to me, touching/stroking my arms as we talked, we ended up making out for a while, we were both drunk by then and i cant even remember how we parted lol, she gave me her number so this is where i need help, when should i text her and what should i say, thanks

i know she likes me all her friends keep telling me so should i ask her if shes going to be out this weekend or tell her im going to be out and that it wud be cool to see her again?

If you actually like the girl and want to see her again, don't play the PUA shit. The PUA stuff is to get you the level, you're already their. Just enjoy the ride, and go out with the girl, simple.

Before you call, have an idea of what you would want to do with her i.e.(going out, catching a drink, hanging out).

This girl already likes you, all you gotta do is make her feel comfortable around with you and she will justify herself to like you more.

Hope that helps,

Samex

thanks for the reply, i know what your saying and i wish it was that easy its just that this is the exact point i ALWAYS mess it up, if this was last year i would have text her something like "hey, had a wicked time with you the other night, i think ur hot too, what u up to the weekend?" .... blah blah blah.
EVERY girl i have ever told i like or im into almost instantly goes off me and i really dont want that to happen again. I need to remain mysterious and look like i have many options available to me but at the same time i need her to know that she is in my thoughts and that i am interested in her (even though i'm not mysterious, i dont have that many options and i am VERY into her)

ok ive text her and she's took about 3 minutes to text back and she says "lol i didnt know you had a girlfriend x", btw i dont have a gf and i cant think of anyone who would tell her that, is this a little test of hers?? please help..

How about, I don't have one ?
Want to go out for a drink?

your name.

well i didnt really wanna ask her anything, i dont want her to have the upperhand, which she now has cos i text back along the lines of "lmao neither did i, who? x" and guess what.....she is not texting back now, WTF, she came onto me, kissed me, gimme her number, told everyone she fancies me.