Dude I am naturally over sensitive. Which is why I am working on my innergame. I would be lying to guys if I said if someone rejected me I felt nothing. I am not there yet. The whole thing kinda stupid. I did 100 sets, one guy said fuck off, this hurt me for a bit. He thought I was a homeless beggar guy during day game. This is why I asked what u guys are thinking, because I have not met many PUA's who are this confident all the way through, to the point where I feel being confident is abnormal. U guys are helping me to think its normal to act in a confident way. In a social venue its very rare to see guys act this way.

I have 50 percent AA. I'm not useless. I just wanna get close to Zero. So I can be more creative, as there is about 90 percent of fun stuff that I am holding back.

Dude the online thing. I can honestly say I would have zero AA, I do not have to even think about it. Do not feel bad for sharing though, it is still interesting.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Newsflash: Everyone has bullshit reasons not to do something. It's called procrastination.

Just ignore the reasons your brain comes up with, realize what they are (excuses) and go do it. Just think: What will make me happier and more proud of myself: Standing here doing nothing, or approaching and taking action?


Also: Stop calling it AA, AA is when you're so terrified that the thought of just walking up to people makes you nauseous and vomit on command. Only people that have never approached in their life, or people that have bad traumatic experiences from social situations truly have AA.
You're looking for a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, you're not gonna find it.

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An approach a day keeps the guru away.

Agreed. I apologize for making it seem like you shouldn't be having any trouble. You just have to push through that wall. I guarantee that once you close your first girl - it will disappear. You just have to DO IT. And that guy who said 'Fuck off!', ignore that experience....

I think maybe you should stick to online game. You basically say the same things. Get comfortable with your routines. Then once you are comfortable meeting these women IRL - working on your in person game....you should be better when you want to just run your day/night game.....

I have a partner so I am not in the closing business. Its a morality issue. I teach guys who have more AA than me or a lower skill set. Having fun is the end goal, but social inhibitions get in the way. I understanding that closing does build confidence faster, but I know guys who close often, who still have inner-game and approach issues.

I fell into this from getting nervous onstage doing stand up comedy. This PU thing was supposed to be temporary, but I found it was helping me to be more confident in life.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
[link]

The Lay Reports.
[link]

Well, in terms of approaching, that's just it. lol

I think in my mind. This is just a woman, I am me. If i don't make her smile or laugh, she has no sense of humor. I am thinking I will approach but it is up to her to keep me interested. I only see her as a fellow human being. I know my character and wit. I do not know hers. In my mind, if a woman shows no interest in me after a brief conversation, she is dull and not worth my efforts. I understand that not every women will be attracted to my looks, but i expect them to like my personality.

My style of approach is often friendly, feeler type. I welcome a challenge, in fact if the girl is a push over and shows too much IOI I often will get turned off. If she is smoking hot, I will play along, just to get in her pants.

But in general, I have learned to see them all the same, regardless of how hot they are. When you think of it, its just two human beings interacting. I believe in my own substance and ability to carry a conversation, as well as any reads i have made of them prior to the approach. My style is to observe first, I put complete faith in my ability to pre-read. I do not do rude/neg style approach, so I have no fear of being rejected rudely. If a woman does reject me rudely, I see it as her fault. And an obvious insecurity. I never ever take any type of rejection personally.

I never come on to a girl right away unless the signs are already there, I prefer to chat friendly, then pounce when the time is right. It all comes down to making them comfortable with you first. ( for me at least)

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Lol Ezo gives the most straightforward advice.

The thing that goes through more experienced guys' heads is actually nothing. We don't think, we just act. You probably aren't confident enough yet, which is fine. It takes years. If you haven't been doing this stuff for years, then start now.

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If you are not a PUA, you are a noob.

I read this part of yours everytime before i go out.. thanks bro.

I really like this story!