Hey guys..if there's one particular area where I need practice in my game is mixed sets..I really don't know what the fuck I should say to the guy or guys. Do you have any ideas?? I hate when there's a girl I like in a group and I cant get in because it's a mixed set. Thanks for helping!

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Hey, you are a guy, you know what you would like to hear about. Guys with guys talk about sports, drinks, cars. If you are talking to guys and girls in a group, you can always ask opinions about things. People in general, like when other people ask them their opinions, because they feel flattered in some sense that you are concerned about their opinion.

If you want to approach a girl in a group I suggest that you build value first, talk to other girls in the club, get noticed. Try to approach her physically not verbally, before interacting with the group, back rubs, looking behind her as if you were looking for somebody else. Then aproach the group, as you use to, or you can approach her, using a familiarity approach. Say something like "Heeeeeey! It has been a long time! How have you've been?" Even without knowing her, that gives you some minutes to play your set with her, away from the group and eliminates the need for you to talk to the whole group. Hope it helps.

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Anybody else has any ideas??

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