Some of us are into "pick-up" for different reason. For about a half a year I have realized that the actual seduction wasn't enough so I started to view "pick-up" as food for my ego. Some of you don't grasp what I am trying to say so I'll try to explain...

Since the prospect of having sex isn't a issue I've been trying techniques to have sex my way by making women chase me. In this post I will present a Lay Report and a Field Report for you to understand what I am trying to say.

*I always dress in a suit (ALWAYS) , in the club and during the day. This fits my personality and most women like the "dom archetype". Just by having this imagine for myself I get women interested and people tend to respond differently because they unconscious view me from a position of power.

Field Report: (Very Nice Legs and Ass)

*1 AM , nightclub , she was with her female friend and she was staying near the bar texting.

Me : Let's dance. (I never dance .. I honestly do not know why I said that)
Her : I am dancing very well by myself. (After scanning me from head to toe with her eyes)

At this point I realize this is a shit test and for some reason I leave her alone and go back to my friends without saying anything.

After about 10 minutes I go to the bar to get some whiskey , I order my drink and after I get it , just as I am about to leave I whisper into her ear "Drop the attitude you're not impressing anybody".

I make a few steps away from her and when I turn my head i caught her looking at me with a devilish smile on her face.

Since I wasn't really interested in getting laid that night I spend most of my night chatting with my friends and forgot about her for about 2 hours.

I see her in the same spot and decided to go and talk to her.

Me : This isn't the way a princess should behave.
Her : Tell me how... ( with a sweet smile and puppy-eyes )


I left without saying anything and went back to my table with my friends. She followed me with her friend and came near my table and stood there semi-dancing trying to get eye contact with me for about half and hour and then she got furious and left.


Lay Report : My perfect 10

In this case I followed my basic structure for one night stands and I knew she was going to end up on my dick. (3 am , night club)

She was 1.75m , apple ass , ferm tits and nice dark hair. She was "semi-dancing" with her beautiful blond female friend (face to face with a meter between them).

I put my hand on her shoulder and turn her around to face me and I get a slight twitch from her but when she sees me her muscle tension disappears.

Me : I am going to be honest and open with you , I find you very attractive and I want you in every position. ( If you say this from a position of power the bitch shield evaporates instantly and she looks into my eyes for a few seconds)
Her : I don't know ... just like that ?
Me : Yes , You and me ... out little secret.
Her : What if I don't want to ?
Me : We are both mature people , you can say what you want but I will never apologize for what I want.

( and just leave for about 15 minutes )

*My advice to all of you is to go in strong and then ease up the tension , instead of doing indirect "game" and waiting to get a shit tested.

I approach again and place my hand on her lower back

Me : I know you want it too and I understand you're with you friend so tell her you'll spend the night with me .. ( her friend didn't cock-block at all)
Her : I don't know...( at this point my hand was on her ass and this was a subtle yes)
Me : I am sure she won't mind both of you are big girls and should have each others back ...

( leave her again and I normally don't do this but she was a rare case )

Another approach after 10 minutes.

Me : I understand that you won't leave her and I respect that so I wish you the best of luck and have fun ... I am leaving . bye! ( as I am about to leave she grabs my wrist and says )
Her : We can still go but we must drop her first.
Me : Ok , let's go ... I am Stelar , btw.
Her : Elena

We ended up at her place.


LESSONS TO BE LEARNED !

1. LESS IS MORE
2. DIRECT AND HONEST
3. BETTER TO GO IN STRONG AND THEN EASY THEN THE OTHER WAY AROUND
4. PERFORM TAKEAWAYS
5. CONGRUENCE BETWEEN THE IMAGE I PROJECT AND THE WORDS I SPEAK

That was greatness (your 5 lessons learned). I'll commit them to memory and toast every piece of pu$$y I get from this to dressing for the job I want, not the job I have.

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I will be going out this Friday and Saturday and I will post the field reports on how to make her chase you.

Judging from my experience in order to make her chase you should play the boyfriend card ( play the card right , warm her up to you and freeze out or make her feel guilty she behaved a certain way ).

Some may argue that this is either pointless or cruel and honestly i do not give a fuck. Maybe I am trying to get payback for the days I have been constantly rejected and since I used a lot of energy and time to get this power and knowledge I will use it the way I want.

*therapy session over*

the drop your attitude one is nice, i decided to use it yesterdayand it worked perfectly!

she was all cocky and trying to make me lowr value after i was really c&F and i told her to drop it cause it wasnt working.
worked like a charm!


but nice usefull report, gj on it.

Glad to help.

Stelar good, job, i like your style... But, in the other post, i did not like what you did, good job...

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*I will not be going out this Friday and Sunday due to heavy snow*

Also there are many lay reports that I could post , but I won't since almost all of them follow the same pattern.

I would love to see reports from those who used my pattern.

Stelar just curious why a suit? is that your way to kind of peacock? your method a bit like ciaran shock and awe, but more subtle.. nice work!

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The suit is for me an EGO boost. Women of the same age and older talk to me using "sir" and the suit is a part of that success.

I do not peacock. Suits are a social symbol of power , it complements my personality and as I said before women respond different to men that exude confidence and power (dom archetype).

Everything from the image i make for myself to the tonality of my voice is in congruence , also every man looks good in a suit.

God you are ballsy.. I love it.

You should do it yourself.

No matter if you get rejected or not you will feel free and great.

Not to thread crap - but I wanted to make sure you saw this, I did try it to an extent but wasn't sure how to take it.

Went out with a wing last night we opened up a 2-set at the bar. Well, it was really a one set as I didn't engage the one I wanted (b). (a) was the one we talked to for a bit... I finally worked my way and began talking to b, we established rappor and I was running my hands through her hair, etc... She had great eye contact but I wasn't sure if she was interested... My wing ended up getting a into him pretty good.

Some gay guy and a girl friend run up to b, while I was talking to her, and start telling her about some movie they will see later in the week. Guess they are all friends... I was sitting there locked in stupidly as b begins to ignore me. So, the gay guy leaves and since b ignored me I begin to talk to the girl friend with remarks about girls drinking dark beers... Lord, she talks more than I thought and b begins to feel uncomfortable now as she is now on the outside... She has to get up and leave to go to the bathroom and I'm stuck listening to this idiot ramble on about nonsense...b ends up going to another table and sitting with a girlfriend and two random guys.

Meanwhile my wing has really got a into him... great. We all talk for a while and it's 1am and my wing and i need to work in the morning. My wing gets girls' number etc and we all joke about what attraction statement i should make to b. i say, i got it and use a line similar to the great Stelar here:

b sitting at table with two guys.
i walk up, don't even acknowledge the guys and put my arm around b and whisper into her ear:

me: i find you real attractive and would love to take you home tonight and do you in every position ... but you have your friend.

her: thank you....

...she looks at me with no expression but gazes into my eyes as i gaze into hers...

i don't break eye contact so we hold it for a good 20 seconds... i didn't know what to do here and my friend came with me and parked at my condo about a mile away... so i had to break it to leave and go out the door...

at least my friend got a's number and a works with b... of course the downside my wing has a girlfriend he loves so he won't take things to the end but he will walk thin ice...

saying the "line" certainly was awesome and exhilarating and her re-action was very hard to gauge...

just thought i would let stelar here know how it went although i didn't know where to take it...

You are 1 step from away from getting consistent lays.

From what I read , things will go this way.

1. You can be 100% sure that B will mention your courage to A. This is a VERY good thing , she is fascinated by you. If you stayed longer (another 5 minutes ) could have fucked her that night. REMEMBER FOR THE FUTURE :

AFTER SHE BREAKS EYE CONTACT HAVE A HONEST SEXUAL DISCUSSION WITH HER : (she breaks eye contact) and you say : " You and me tonight ... our little secret" and she will respond

2. If you really are interested in this woman ( you really want to fuck her ) you should get in contact with her ( get her phone number and CALL HER, do not text) and invite her to come over for a glass of wine or a movie.If she resist coming to your place or wants to meet you in other place just say : "We are 2 mature people and it would be nicer this way."

3. Next time you encounter a similar situation where you are in a rush , just ask for her phone and punch your digits in her phone and give yourself a call. Ask for her phone not phone number.

You are so close...

Imagine going out Friday and Sunday and getting one night stands consistently in a matter of minutes.

Thank you for the response.

"AFTER SHE BREAKS EYE CONTACT HAVE A HONEST SEXUAL DISCUSSION WITH HER : (she breaks eye contact) and you say : " You and me tonight ... our little secret" and she will respond"

So, after I said "I am attracted to you..." I should have stood right there and continued to stare at her? I had to break eye contact because I had to leave but she kept it after saying "thank you" which leads me to believe she liked it...

So basically:

Me: "I am attracted to you..." hold eye contact...
Her: ...thank you...
... wait for her to break contact ...
Me: you, me, our little secret.

Should I ask my wing to ask A for B's number on my behalf? Remember, I didn't get a number. My wing got A's number and has been texting her on/off today.

"3. Next time you encounter a similar situation where you are in a rush , just ask for her phone and punch your digits in her phone and give yourself a call. Ask for her phone not phone number. "

Yes, I should have done this. I would have been difficult for a SNL as my wing road with me to the bar.

After she breaks contact, say "Give me your phone" and just call myself from it?

"You are so close... "

This is exciting and quite frankly, I had that feeling in the pit of my stomach as I said "I am real attracted..." but the reaction and everything was "mesmerizing" for me to the point I'm pretty sure I got slightly erect...


Btw, I can have my friend text A tonight asking for B's number and make the call tonight (it's 7pm here and they get off at 9pm) if this would be the way to go...

Quite frankly though I would be terrified and not sure how a call like that should go?

Just call and say "Hey it's Z from last night ... Want to come over and watch a movie tonight?" She lives not too far from my condo.

Thanks again Stelar.

1. She must break the eye contact first , after that you say " You and me tonight .. out secret " or " We both want the same thing , let's enjoy ourselves" ( the discussion must be either sexual or about the logistics *going to her place or yours)

*SOME WOMEN WON'T SAY ANYTHING , BUT WON'T LEAVE > IN THIS CASE YOU SHOULD PERSIST AND TOUCH HER SEXUALLY*

You are not trying to make her horny , you are trying to convince her that you want her (NOT NEED HER) and will not back down ( and there is no reason to back down because she didn't reject you)

It won't take longer that 15 minute (Max).

2. With the B lady you call her and ask her to come over , no date , no nothing < your place or her place , nothing in between.

If she says NO , your reply should be : " We are both mature people and I don't like playing game , I am not going to apologize for what I want" then say Bye and hung up.

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This is another Lay report from last summer. This woman didn't make it easy for me. you may use these exact words or something similar.

Me : I don't like beating around the bush so I am going to be honest with you , I find you very attractive and want to exchange orgasms ( blank face + intense eye contact)

She : (complete silence , looked into my eye for about 10 and then looked down ; she looks down still complete silence but doesn't even make 1 step away from me)

Me : We are obviously 2 mature people and we can talk about everything (pause for 2-3 seconds) You an me tonight ... our little secret. (my hand is on her hip)

She : (looking away and staying there like a statue)

Me : It's already 3 am let's continue this somewhere else (and I go to my cousin , few feet away from her)

After 5 minutes I approach her again and place my hand again on her hip. Since it's a loud club I am speaking into her ear and this time out faces touch.

Me : I am an open person and there is no reason to pretend , we both like each other ( at this point my hand is between her butt cheeks)

She : ( still nothing )

Me : (I kiss her neck and she looks at me and I say) : Let's get a cab. (grab her by the hand and leave)

DONE DEAL.

*IMPORTANT NOTES.

1. IT IS NOT MANDATORY TO DO A TAKEAWAY
2. YOU CAN TRY TO MAKE HER HORNY BUT IT ISN'T NECESSARY. I TOUCH AND SPEAK TO HER SEXUALLY TO SHOW I WILL NOT BACK DOWN FROM WHAT I WANT.
3. IF SHE IS WITH A FRIEND AND IN A LOUD CLUB , JUST ENGAGE YOUR HER THE OTHERS WON'T HEAR ANYTHING.
4. WITH TIME YOU WILL DEVELOP AN EYE FOR WOMEN LOOKING FOR ONE NIGHT STANDS.
5. THE LATER THE HOUR THE EASIER IT GETS.
6 DO NOT APPROACH WOMEN THAT ARE DANCING AND SEEM TO ENJOY THEMSELVES.