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"Hi What's your name" is the approach that Nikki from Spread (a good movie for pick up) uses and he ends up getting laid haha.
For direct approaches I would recommend looking into daygame.com .... Yad is really good with this stuff. I use something like this and It's worked a few time (I just started direct appraches)
"Excuse me, I know this is gonna sound kinda random, but I just noticed you walking past(pause).... and I had to tell you....(make pauses) that you got a really nice sense of style. It's elegant."
After the Thanks, I start making assumptions of where she's from and then the rest happens in the moment.
note that most girls won't know what to say and they will want to eject, because it's too much tension for them to handle... but the key is to plow through.
like...if she wants to leave I say "Don't let a friendly hi go to waste, stop and talk to me. I gotta go leave in a couple minutes anyway"
I practice direct daygame on a college campus and ^^ this is the truth about it. remember that no opener will work if the girl is not listening to you. So the first key to making the opener effective is to make sure the girl is listening.
I make sure she is listening to me by using what is called the Yad stop. The Yad stop is when the girl is walking and you need to get her to stop. i approach girls by jogging past them and then turning around and block their path and make a stop motion with your hands.
heres a effective direct opener that i practice and got results with. Do the yad stop to make sure the girl is listening. Then I say " excuse me, I dont want to be wierd or anything, but..................." from here all i did was shut up and look directly in her eyes. I find 5-10 seconds of silence is golden but you can go for more
You can see and feel the tension building between you and the girl. she is usually just waiting their for you to say something. I act like its something difficult for me to say and then when i want to release the tension i say "i just thought you were cute and i need to chat you up/ i need to meet you."
to get into a actually conversation though I use asumptions aboutt the girl. and then i spend time trying to find out who she is as a person. and just like the above guy said many girls WILL NOT KNOW HOW TO RESPOND AND TRY TO GET AWAY FROM YOU. This teaches you just have to plow thru it. Practice saying " just one more thing before you go" and continue with a assumption