So first, as is proper, a little bit of a backstory.
I'm new to the forum, hi, I'm Javy. I have had little success with women,and this is largely due to the fact that i am a shy guy. I'm sixteen, and this summer, i moved to California. My first day here, I decided to try out my new self and ask a girl out. I asked this redhead who had been clearly flirting with me, but i had done so awkwardly. My voice was shaky, my body felt antsy, but I think I got her because of my upfront approach and also the fact that nobody had ever approached her like that.

Well, now I clearly see the problems with my so-called game, and I'm seeking to improve it. I have read Magic Bullets, but haven't yet implemented anything that I've read on the book. As a challenge to what I've learned, my friend devised a bet: to pick up a certain girl, which he pointed out, and kiss her, within four months.

Now I call on experts of game and pick-up artists everywhere because I only have one chance. This isn't about the girl, or the bet; those I can live with if i failed, but this is about what I can do, and what I will be able to do.

I will come on here most every day to check up on suggestions and to further develop my plan on picking her up, going through the whole process with you guys until i have virtually every aspect- from opening to comfort to maybe even seduction- perfectly planned out, and when I am confident enough that the pickup will succeed, i will try my luck and post a field report for you all to see, learn from, and correct me on.

I'll come back tomorrow and post my planned opener, so if you guys have any suggestions or comments meanwhile, feel free to post them for me to read later. I appreciate the help guys, and thanks.

There is no such thing as a perfect pick-up.
Also reading tips won't help you get a girl. Use this forum's faq and read some more material. Go out and field practise until you're no longer shaky with girls.

If you think you gotta be perfect, you'll just make yourself more nervous. If you had to be perfect to get into a girl's pants the human race would have perished long ago. I take solace in the fact that I can be off and still be attractive.

Yup.

Anthony Robbins's got great thoughts on this. He says PERFECTION IS THE LOWEST STANDARD since it cannot be achieved. You should strive to be OUTSTANDING.

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I have to return some videotapes...

So i figured the title might have been a bit misleading. I know that there's no such thing as a perfect pick-up, but what i wanted is the best pick-up I can possibly attempt with her, kind of how a writer carefully chooses words, structure, and tone to make his writing the best that it can be.

I have a couple of ideas for an opener, but I'm still not set on any, as the ones I like would make me have to be very creative in my transition, and I'm not an awfully creative person, so I'll think more on it and I'll come back tomorrow.

Have a good one guys!

Here dude, I wrote an article that could probably help you out.

you-need-a-girlfriend-to-get-a-girlfriend-vt127551.html

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