I've finally gotten round to filming some of my sets. Below are two Day Game infield videos of girls I opened in London. Both are sets that successfuly resulted in an instant date. I'm planning to film a lot more over the coming months


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oPcgi8hbxkI[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbWWOSJdoM0[/youtube]

Well well well, those students definitely got their game on!

I do think that the bottom video of the big guy, that when he said: Wanna go for a drink? She complied, and he should've just put his elbow out for her to stick her arm in it. He's a big friendly protective giant, so she must've felt attracted to him when she went with him for a drink.

In the first video all I see is you talking about work and how long she's been in London. Just general chit chat. Still, was a good effort. How'd you go after the instant dates?

You know what, thats all day game is "general chit chat". In terms of attraction most of the work is done for you by opening. She knows that maybe 99.9% of men wouldn't stop her while shes walking down the street and tell her she's attractive. The only other thing I do is challenge her a bit, I did it by questioning that being a photographer is better than being a model and again by suggesting that modeling is easy.

If there wasn't any attraction she wouldn't have agreed to go for a coffee with a man she's known for less than 4 minutes. We went to Starbucks for about 25 minutes and I number closed at the end. Unfortunately I had to go back to Spain where I live early the next morning and she doesnt live in London, she lives in another part of the UK. We've texted a couple of times but I doubt anything will happen due to the distance.

Great video man The bottom video when you invited her for coffee
and she said no, I thought it was over! But then after a minute or
so you pushed through and tried inviting her again and it worked!

All the best man, goodluck!

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No doesn't necessarily mean "I'm not interested in you" sometimes it just means "I'm not ready yet". Even though she said no she was in no rush to get away from me and was clearly happy to keep talking. In that extra minute we started talking about something she loved (the opera) and I think hearing me talk about going to the ballet created a little bit more connection and comfort.

Its that old adage "look at what a woman does not what she says"

I watch these 2 videos a couple of times now and do not understand what happens. I have never seen Day Game before I join this forum. It seems strange that a woman is going for coffee with someone from the street so quickly. I also can not see that you are doing any PUA things but the girl in the first video goes to coffee with you after just talking about general things for 3 minutes. But I couldn't imagine talking to a strange girl in the street like this....

[quote="esPUA"]I watch these 2 videos a couple of times now and do not understand what happens. I have never seen Day Game before I join this forum. It seems strange that a woman is going for coffee with someone from the street so quickly. I also can not see that you are doing any PUA things but the girl in the first video goes to coffee with you after just talking about general things for 3 minutes. But I couldn't imagine talking to a strange girl in the street like this....[/quote]

Well, you should know that there's a small chance while she's walking she's going to stop and want to talk to you.

She wants to talk to you if:
1. She has no boyfriend.
2. She thinks you're insanely hot.
3. She isn't in a rush.
4. She knows she's going to have fun.
(5. She just wants sex, doesn't matter from who.)

First off, I want to compliment you on doing this kind of stuff and playing the game. It requires confidence and willpower. Good job man.

To be honest I dislike your game. For me it looks like you are too much willing to go out with them, you are showing to much IOI's and it looks more like a job interview (try using statements in place of questions). I like the thought of them trying to impress you; for example I use lines like these to achieve these:

Good looks are regular nowadays, why would I go on a date with you? (although this may sound very direct and challinging for a girl which you just know for 2 minutes, it does show you are different and you can always bend it into your favor)

Most girls will try to proof themselves and hereby you switch positions, she will try to impress you by asking that question.

The questions you are asking such as, what do you do and why etc... These are questions a lot of her friends also ask her so these do not trigger emotions, they just build up trust. Trust for what, being the 'nice guy' and she letting you wait for the p*ss, because she wouldn't want to lose you right away.
(She knows she might never see you again if she gives you everything at once.)

Do not get offended by my comment, I am just giving advice here to improve your game and to even more increase your succes with using less effort.

Nonetheless good job and continue playing.

I'm very open to criticism but I have to disagree with most of what you're saying. Believe it or not I'm familiar with the line:-

"Good looks are regular nowadays, why would I go on a date with you?"

This is Mystery Method 101, while some people have success with MM in clubs I've heard of very few people even using it during the day. The biggest difference between day game and night game is the need for authenticity.

When you meet a girl in a club she isn't her regular self, she is the "partying" version of herself. There is nothing wrong with this, most people go to clubs to let their hair down and act differently for a few hours.

When you meet a girl in the day she is 100% herself, she'll therefore respond better to you if you are 100% yourself and authentic. Running lines from "The Game" or using any gamey tricks on her is counterproductive.

Your point about having a more emotional conversation is valid but it isn't always needed in the initial stage of a pickup. My aim is to just get her to agree to go for a coffee with me. Day Game is a little like shock and awe. You open directly, banter a bit then escalate quickly (by suggesting an instant date). Once you're actually on the date you can worry about getting her emotions going.

But also watch the first video again and watch the girls body language when I talk to her about modeling and suggest it's easy. She start's talking about the pressure she experiences to stay slim and look her best as a model. You can see from her body language that this is quite an emotive topic for her and she's quite self conscious about it. It's not just talking about "what do you do and why".

At the end of the day both girls agreed to go for a coffee with me very quickly. With those particular girls i really didn't need to do anything more than I did.

I totally agree with your statement.

very nice, congrats on getting instant dates! its was a reality breaking experience for me knowing you could just walk up to a cute chick and get a date within 5 min of talking to her. it brings about a mentality of abundance. that aside, i feel like your game is weak i dont mean to bag on you but you seem to ask a lot of questions and honestly im quite puzzled because asking questions like this would not last me ten seconds in a mall, maybe its an age thing cause im 20 and approach younger girls but i cant understand where the attraction comes from...pretty much you ask questions and challenge them thats it. anyhow congrats on the progress man. good shit

I understand where you're coming from as a lot of people in the community think you need to do something to impress girls to create attraction. Personally I think the truth is you just need to put yourself infront of a girl and be 100% authentic, genuine and outcome independent (ie confident).

The trick is to just not do things to f*ck it up like trying to impress her or appearing needy or being too nervous.

I was a little bit nervous at the beginning of both these videos but I have a very relaxed personality which which helps me out. I'm also not really trying to impress either girl which has the appearance of confidence.

Also I'm very relaxed and matter of fact about asking to go for coffee (which has the appearance of confidence). The second girl turned me down the first time but I was very relaxed about it and just smile, talk a bit more then asked again a bit later (appearance of confidence).

At the end of the day all I can do is present my personality as relaxed and as confidently as I'm able to, some girls will like who I am and some wont.

btw the age thing shouldn't be an issue, most of the girls I approach are aged 18 to 21 (the girls in these videos were both about 21).

Ahhh, so thats how ya instadate! You have to talk non stop; becuase if no one is talking she will be thinking of saying nice to meet ya or walk off. Ya gotta keep her "busy."

ALL THIS TIME!!! lol I was just talking to them but saying hey, and how ya doing with a lot of pauses. Thank you man and please do more vids.

Hell you ever heard of the Gunwitch Method? Try making a video of from instadating them all the way to laying them by the second hour.

You are actually doing the Gunwitch Method, heheh and people aren't realizing it the way they are replying to you, so yes you are actually gaming her.

I'm gonna try this out doing the Gunwitch Method. Thanks man.

I think usually you need to keep the conversation moving forward with daygame for the first few minutes. That´s what I try to do anyway.

I havent read Gunwitch Method but I´m vaguely aware of it, I like 60YearsOfChallenge a lot which I´ve heard is very similar to Gunwitch.