Ok so one of my potentials, shes been all over me and constantly txting, she txt me this morning saying 'ive had a dream about you' I was thinking dirtyyy bitch so I txt back, 'you had those dreams about me, ur bad!' then she made out that the dream was at a restaurant, I played along with a few txts back n forth, then said 'but then you went on to punch the waiter, I know how the story goes from here' she txt back 'nooo haha' then immediately afterwards said 'What you saying I'm common, I got manners thanks.' so I said 'We are talking about a fucking dream, get a life.' She responds 'whaaaat!' shall I bother txting her back, or show her the cold shoulder for pissing me off, I hate it when girls get defensive but I definetely thought my reply kicks ass and maybe I should leave it at that, let her know I'm a badass not to be fucked with. Would love to hear some input

Don't bother texting back if you want to keep your dignity. If this girl has any self-esteem and this kind of behaviour is indicative of your overall behaviour then you won't get anywhere.

I've made it obvious that I havn't gave of any of that vibe, hence her surprise. Women do that kind of thing sometimes to test us, and if we crumble then we fail the test, think you've read it wrong but thanks for the input none the less

All right, maybe, but profanity and telling a girl to get a life in a text sounds extremely rude. If a girl (or anyone for that matter) said anything even remotely close to that to me I would insta-remove her from my phone.

But yeah, to answer more fully makre sure you don't apologize in any form or fashion (even though I think it's rude and you should, lol). If I were you then just continue the interaction and pretend nothing was said (test how strong her offended frame is, if it is too strong then too bad, don't do it again).

I would reply because you're clearly leaving her in a negative state otherwise and you don't want her to associate such emotions which you.

I'm sure mystery said if a girl comes back negative to one of your stories just to say this because it says fuck it, I dont care about your B.S... I do understand what you are saying to a degree but coming back sweet and nice doesn't always have its desired effect. What would you have said? I just think you have to let them no you could walk out of their life at any moment. I guarantee I will have a txt from this girl within 2 days..

So after clicking send to reply to you the girl has txted me saying 'I wana see you!'

I am a don, do not question me...

That was stupid..

You do have to follow through now though, so just leave it as it is.

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Why was it stupid? She txt me saying she wanted to see me? Women like men with balls I thought this was a PUA forum not a bunch of AFC's telling me to be nice to women... So anyway I txt back 'I'm busy right now talk to you later' High profile men do not put up with Bullshit, especially as she's making up a dream where I spend alot of money on her - trying to plant the seed in my head that she wants me to take her out. No its done on my terms thankyou.

Don't start threads if you don't want your mistakes to be pointed out.

Fact is you're not a PUA, you're an ass. Being an ass does not make you a PUA, and being a decent person doesn't make you an AFC. It's very possible, actually rather easy, to have a spine and be nice.

We often ask for advise when we already know the answer to the question.

I'm not afraid to break rapport. You don't know me enough to comment on whether I am a PUA an ass a homosexual deviant send from another dimension to end all beings, or I could be all of these?

Anyway..Nice guys finish last.

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At the rate you've been asking for help and advice on the website it would only make sense that you aren't a pua..

Whatever though dude, your know what your doing right? I hope it all works out

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All I've asked about is facebook game and txt game and I appreciate you guys input's but you were obviously both wrong in this case.

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Good luck with your imaginary girlfriend!

Asking for advice when you already know the answer=wanting others to pat you on the back and go "THAT WAS SO ALPHA." You're misinterpretation of these basic ideas is what makes so many people think that pickup is a bunch of toolbags who lie to women and actively try to make them feel as unintelligent and unattractive as possible.

'We are talking about a fucking dream, get a life.'

That is a little OTT for the vibe you were on. Since she'd texting you that she's had a dream about you she was obviously very attracted but this will have put her off slightly. Obviously not enough to text you again but yeah.

Personally, I'd have said "well clearly not, you've just been texting me about this dirty dream you've been having "

to which she would have said something like "how is it dirty"

you: "don't get me started"/"you seem to make something dirty out of anything"

or just anything cocky funny.

Just cos she's saying she had a dream about you and her in a nice restaurant doesn't mean she's necessarily trying to put that in your head either

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