I met this girl a long while back, about 3 months ago. Got her number that night. Texted her for a few weeks. Saw her again at a party, laid out my game, kiss closed and arranged for a date the following week.

Later on in the week she calls me and shuts me down. "Things are moving too fast", "I'd be more comfortable if we were friends for a while first".

Now this girl is shy and reserved and from what I hear from other guys isn't DTF. So I wouldn't be surprised if what she was saying isn't just to turn me down. Either way, we had something there for a moment and I just want to reach out once before giving up.

Any suggestions for what I can say or do? I don't think I'll casually run into her again. We were both going to a party last night of a mutual friend by she didn't show.

So yeah, any help guys? I know you'll probably say oneitus and that I should see other girls, and I have, I've seen like 3 or 4 other girls but I just want to give it another chance before giving up. I have her # and facebook.

Thanks!

anybody? I'm seeing another 2 girls this week but I want to give this one one last shot.