I was with a girl for 5 years, recently broke up so I decided it's time to hop back on the saddle and mix it up at the locals to see if I still had "it".

I walk into the club, I'm at the bar and this HB8 passes me up and orders a drink even though I was obviously at the bar first. I definitely flubbed this up and I'd like some perspective on how NOT to do it again.

I say to her,
Me-Hey, I know Hilliary Clinton has done alot for women's rights, but you can't just cut line because you have tits and ass(with a smile on my face)

Her-I don't even have nice tits and I cut you, how does that make you feel? (she leaned in to me to talk into my ear and put her arm on my lower back)

Me-I'm not even sure I should continue talking to you.(I put my arm around her waist)

Her-Why's that?

Me-Because your maybe 80 pounds (prolly 115 really) and you just ordered a low calorie drink.

Her-(laughing)Proceeded to talk about her drink and how awesome it is and how I should try it blah blah blah

Me-Ok I'll give it a whirl. I gotta go back and meet some friends, I'll try this low calorie bullshit and let you know what bad taste you have okay? By the way my name is DJ

Her-(haha)Ok I'll be down here, my name is Lauren.

At this point I go up stairs with my buds, chill for about 45 minutes and get some drinks in me, and see this same girl leaving the club with another dude. I was confident in how my natural game went, but I'll be damned if I'm not kicking myself because I didn't close right then and there. I was litterally in the club 3 mintues before talking to her and convinced myself that incould scope the place some more and come back to her later, which obviously didn't work.

Any tips on how I should have handled the situation better? I found this site just yesterday and ima order the Book because with my job I have nothing to do except kill time and this PUA seems like it can be a reall confidence booster for guys that have been out of the game for a while. Thanks.

#1 when you open and it hooks, and the set is going great, don't leave! All your doing is pumping her buying temperature and the next guy that comes along will have much easier time then you too hook up with her. Even if he has little game compare to you. Vice versa, if you pissed her off, the next guy that comes along will have harder time to hook up with her, and he will need really good game.

#2 It takes less then 10 minutes to move a girl from point A to B. And it's a lot easier if its inside the club your already at. Instead of leaving her to be with your buddies, take her with you and introduce her to your friends.

#3 Go for Quality over Quantity. Is better to go for pulls then to try to get 5 numbers a night. Even if you don't pull, the number you get is gonna be more solid. Why go for pull? Your forced to spend couple of hours with the girl building a lot of comfort, emotional connections, rapport, etc.. Even if she is not down to come back, that number is gonna be solid and it will make it easier to set up day 2's, and will give you a lot of material for texting her. Pulls are hard though, there are lots of issue that can get in the way.


My set from this saturday is a good example. It was 2 on 2. We were in the set for at least an hour. My wing spots his classmate he had in college last semester. Leaves his girl for 20 minutes and she is just sitting there. Some random who she never met comes up and swoops in on her around 1 am and pulls her to his pad. He did this literally within 5 minutes of meeting her. Stick with your women.

Posting because I've been in a similar situation a few times and want some advice to.

But perhaps you shouldn't have left her for so long.

think that advice on going for the pull instead of numbers is a great idea.... kicking myself for not thinking of something so simple now. cheers

Freak

You left her for 45min!

I could leave with your sister,mom and x girl in that much time bro!

It hooked you should of reeled her in!