I have been talking with this cute girl I met on POF a month ago. It was winter break at our college and we were both hours apart so we couldn't meet earlier. We've texted most days and recently started talking a lot on the phone. Sometimes up to an hour at a time. We both feel very comfortable with each other and so far her interest level has been high. Anyway I recently talked to her and we've been mentioning meeting up this week but here's the thing she doesn't like to eat in front of guys she hasn't met. I've busted her balls on this multiple times (as a weird/funny issue) and it's worked out but I'm trying to think of other things to do.

She texted me after we talked saying she is excited to meet me to which I said I was glad and it will be fun and maybe we can just do something spontaneous and decide at the moment.

But if that doesn't work out (I'm very indecisive) I don't know what to do or how to approach this. Any tips?

She also said she doesn't like movie theaters as a first meet (which is fine) but I'm trying to think of something where I could establish kino and more comfort. My place is off limits since I have awkward roommates and there's nothing to do.

Kino? Hmm... it's winter time so maybe skating? You'll get to talk to her while skating. I would go for coffee too before or after skating.

Coffee before...
First you want to take her a few places, it will make her feel like she has known you longer, second the caffiene will make you both more chatty, bouncy, energetic, etc...

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Coffee place
Bar
Pub
...

Where would you take a mate you didn't see for a while?
Try the same location, makes you comfortable and you can even say, the wine is good or ...

I find that a lounge for drinks is really laid-back. just make just you don't site across the table from her. Sit diagonally to her. Then it's kino time

Ok so it's tomorrow. I suggested things I'd like to do but as of now she said she would rather talk and walk or talk and drive and such. I'm completely fine with that and told her I like to be spontaneous. That's completely fine. So right now it's hard to plan ahead but I guess I should go over a few routines in case I might need them. Is running the cube on the first date appropriate or will it creep her out?

Ok so basically we drove for a while, went to a mountain top and talked and had a lot of fun. I didn't get to do any routines since 80-90% of our date was me driving but we talked a lot and I was mostly myself. I got her to laugh a lot though and teased her a lot. We teased each other a lot about assessing each other and if we both passed ect and when she asked if I thought she passed I kissed her. Just a light kiss. She didn't seem that offended but I did a lot of kino and it was only when I was dropping her off she wanted to give me a hug and said she has only been in one other relationship and likes to go slow. She's also a virgin by the way. She asked me a lot of personal questions and all that too. So she said she wants me to text her and continue seeing me but she likes to start off slow. So I guess I sorta screwed up? In the past I never made the move and kissed and this time I did and I screwed up doing that. I feel your damned if you don't kiss her and damned if you do. We were making a lot of eye contact though and the moment just felt right. Guess it's hard to tell. I felt if I hadn't have made the move I would have risked being friend zoned.

You're both virgins?

Whoa kinda outta my terrioty... that went a good few years ago...

Remember to push the envelope with her, kiss her, you have a bit, and then kiss her some more, then play with her tits, she'll tell you to stop, stop and then start again...

Escalation ladder!

2 things to remember: you'll regret what you didn't do alot more than what you did. secondly, enjoy it, don't be nervous, let her be nervous... pretend like you know what you are doing and you'll be half way there...

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everything i say is in my humble opinion...
"the more i practice the luckier i get"
gary player
"the more i practice the fuckier i get"
smashy

I'm not a virgin, she is. We're both the same religion though but she's much more devout.