Hooked up with this girl at a ball and had sex upstairs in the hotel room, both of us were really drunk.
Met her another two nights at the club and had sex one of those times, went for a milkshake at burger king both these times.
Before the second time we had sex she said she didn't want to lead me on and that she wasn't ready for a relationship as she was out of a two year one.
I said that's fine and that i just wanted to have fun and see how it goes.
It was a tiny bit awkward in the morning as she seemed hesitant. So i decided to lay off a bit over Christmas as she was going away to Spain anyway.

So two weeks ago we met each other at the club and four days later i do the dinner-movie-milkshake (i know lame) but went well enough (I probably should have had sex with her one of these nights but i didn't feel i needed to).
So we've been chatting on and off, for the last week and a half. She was working at the hotel for another college ball, i was hoping to hook up at some stage during the night maybe after but had to go home and she was very busy. Exchanged one or two text that night.

Then today (like four days later again) i decide to ring her because i'm not sure if i'm coming on too strong and i don't want to let it fizzle out either and don't want to be in limbo like holding out for her or anything.
The conversation goes good then at the end i ask her if she wants to go for a drink sometime during the week and she says her ex-wanted to meet up this week. I'm guessing he was the one that broke up with her cause she must still like him or something i dunno there was drama anyway maybe he cheated whatever. So i tell her i just wanted to see how it goes as i normally don't follow up with girls and we talk another bit It then ends with like lets not do this or its on hold, i'm not sure how i think about the whole thing and i don't think she is either. I dunno what i should do at least i can continue being single but i would still like to follow it up with something.

So basically we get on really well and i like her but dunno what to do now. Any advice would be great!

Here's my advice.

You need to play it cool, and dont worry. Girls always have things for their exes, even thought they cheated on them, or some other kind of drama. Try to get her to go out with you. You know this girl, you know what she likes to do, where she likes to go. Knowing that, its easy for you to ask her out. I dont know if it is a great idea to let her have the choice of day at first, you could say "How about thursday night?" then if she wants it that day she'll tell you right away, and re-schedule another day if she's really interested. Hope it helps.

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Thanks maybe its worth a try but its too soon i think, don't wanna be too needy.
I was thinking of laying off for a while and maybe seeing how we get along next time we see each other out. And when i do see her out either chat up loads of women at whatever place we're at and treat her like an uninteresting friend for a while, make her question stuff OR going straight up and being very direct, not sure. Thanks for the reply.