Hey guys! (And girls? Can a girl be a PUA?) Hmm, well I guess... here is where I will learn.
Anyhow, My name is Chris. I am a young new comer to this PUA Crowd! Yes, after 21 years since my arrival to what one could probably in some ways call the largest forum of all (yes earth) I have decided to post this small Topic here. (Well actually an introduction).
How did I end up here you ask? Well actually I have two reasons... one obvious and one deeper. First with the obvious (obviously). My desire as a man is to find the best woman possible surely. *NOD* (Fun along the way is good for a day, but for life, I would like a wife) A little rhyme I just made up for you there
. I am not actively seeking a wife soo carry on reading. It is not the entire reason why I am here...
Okay now the obvious reason is out of the way, I will tell you the specific reason, the reason that’s a bit deeper. The one (that I believe, is the inspiration for us all to be here) Well that is why I am here and not still (or entirely still... an AFC).
*Queue the violin"
At the beginning of April 2011 everything in my life seemed great. I was in that "comfy" mode. That I had been in with my Girlfriend for nearly 2 years and I thought everything was fine. 11 days after the start of that April. I was confronted with a change. This change metaphorically flushed all my comfort and happiness down the toilet. My brain went into hyper emotion logic. (yes that is something I just made up). I could not comprehend why she wanted to leave me. This threw my life that was going along like a happy little tank engine, on its smooth ideologically placed rails over a cliff and into what seemed an eternal fall.
*You can stop the violin now*
The following 6 months resulted in me loosing friends, work and a lot of self esteem. I tried going out all the time... I tried working as much as I could... but I became trapped In a prison of my own sadness. Holidays became the foundation for me to rediscover myself. They gave me an escape from my life, where I felt like I could start to be myself again. Like many people in general, I like to read on holidays and read I did.
I wanted to sharpen up my salesmanship. On my kindle I found a book. A book called the greatest salesman in the world by Og mandino. This got me started. Reading gave me the solution to clean that mirror that reflects my past in my mind and understand Its illusions and to clarify the reactions of others so I could learn from my past and present clearer than ever before.
This also started a chain reaction of questions in my mind, questions I had to have answered. I wanted to improve myself further. I turned from being a falling train that was once set on ideological rails; into a plane that’s only limits are the stars.
So here I am. Ready to learn, ready to share and ready to partake with others who share my dreams of reaching new heights. Heights in becoming a great PUA and a great man among men.
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Pua prince
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