A couple cases here..first one is a HB8 on okcupid who I've been sending messages back and forth for a few days now. Friday we're talking back and forth, and she asks what I'm doing tonight..said I'm not sure, then she replies and says she's going for dinner with friends then out to a local bar...so I message back my number and let's meet up...don't hear from her, but saw her creeping on my profile page..so I message her yesterday..thanks for calling me the other night! She says sorry I was with friends..so I ask what she was up to and said to text me rather than message me on okc because I dont check it as much..so I get a message back from her with where she went..I'm like cool, I don't think I could date you, you don't listen to me So I'd have given up on this one long ago, but she's hot and still messaging me so what would would be a good approach from here? I don't wanna be someone's okcupid buddy, I wanna be inside her.

2nd one is a girl who lives a few streets away on pof...got the number easily, been doing a lot of texting back and forth, and some of it has gotten hot..problem is she keeps backing out on plans...like Saturday I was out at the bar and she was texting me and teasing but wouldn't let me come over..told me tomorrow...So yesterday, I was like, hey, I think I'm gonna go out to this bar for happy hour, wanna join me? And she was like, I've never been there, that would be cool, but I'm busy with studying..maybe...did some more flirting back and forth, but nothing...this one seems easy enough but wtf am I doing wrong?