I'm still in the process of reading the MM handbook, so bear with me guys. ive been talking to this girl at my work that has a b/f and i have no idea if she likes me or not. I do know shes expressed that she's cheated before(she kissed another guy) and she also told me that she believes in the saying once a cheater always a cheater. Shes very friendly with me and always seeks attention from me, but im usually doing some sort of friendly negging, although sometimes i do reward her for being especially nice or friendly with me. I don't really know where to take it from here. Ive been talking to her for like 2 months now and i think i might have missed my chance. I might even been in the ljbf zone. So what do you guys think i should do? I don't know how to go about finding out if she would be fine with me being her "dirty little secret" if you know what im sayin? I'd appreciate all the help i can get

When you can get some time alone with her, and I don't mean at work. Invite her out somewhere. Turn on the game and kino escalate, to see where it goes. If you get the LJBF speech you know where you are and you need to move on. If you don't reep the benefits of the kino escalation and take it as far as you can. Be ready for LMR since she does have a BF.

That's what I would do. Whatever, you do, try not to kino escalate at work that could turn out badly. Unless you really don't care about your job. Honestly, if its been 2 months and you haven't done any form of kino I'm guessing you're i the LJBF zone anyways, but it's worth a shot.

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I agree with what jsmooth has said. I just want to add, for emphasis, if you aren't yet in the LJBF zone, the kino escalation is VITAL. Along with the kiss close.