So im in a relationship recently.

Fuck up a bit this week and yesterday. Recently i was able to hold back picking up women, by occupying myself with video games and reminding myself how awesome this chick is.

But last week i met this chick who had a shit load of iois. I didnt even realize it at the time but i had an irrisistable urge to pick her up. Faint but strong signlas. So i opened her we chatted and then decided to sit in the same desk in the library. At that moment i wanted to fuck her so bad as if i didnt get laid for a month which is weird since i got laid the day before that. I was so in the set that if asked her to go with me we could have fucked in the car a few hours later. But i decided to just get number, she invited me to a party and then i ejected.

Then yesterday i was at a retail store i was shopping more video games, i ran across this bubbly chick, i didnt even open her for the purpose of picking her up but i sorta just got in on her convo with her friend. Then it went to what she is doing there then i help her look at some of the things she is shopping for, she kept bumping me, touching me and all that. I decided to just eject and pretend i need to go as a way to resist the urge to pick her up.

So i was determined to just shop and not pick up chicks Then this hot fucking chick comes along in front of me all dressed up and energetic, and the setup was perfect i just had to pick her up. She dropped something i just made a comment about it then we had a convo about calculators which went into banter, fooling around teasing her then i qualified her told her she is one fun chick which was true. And she seemed nervous talkig to me that i liked it even more. Got her number and chatted then ejected.

Ive been texting them both these past few days. My gf has no idea about this. Im thinking i will just be friends with them but i have a feeling it could go like it usually goes and then id be juggling fwbs again.

Turn this shit off i want to live a simple life with a gf and a game addiction for a while.

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Bow chika wow wow

due thats not a real question, just eject without getting their numbers, problem solved. Stop being silly.

Skyrim sucks btw

Well there are days where i could do that. But recently ever since ive picked up that chick at the library ive been flirty around women again as if im single.

When a girl smiles at me with some desire in their eyse or if i see them all bubbly, i get excited and just start flirting, kinoing, teasing, to the point that i know if i meet this girl again, it will be much more exciting. By just getting her number i keep the possibility of us meeting again and you are saying the easy way is just ejecting without getting their number.

Thats like a girl playing with her wet pussy right in front of your dick and you decide to not fuck her. That is not easy each occurence gives moment the preceeding once that resisting it would require a great deal of restraint.

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Bow chika wow wow

saying is not tantamount to not asking for a girls number, I reject your metaphorical premise.

Lol i would give you more examples but you are intelligent enough to get it the first time, i think you r the type of person who is not open to understand a concept you dont originally grasp at the expense of being initially mistken. Its all cool

P.s. Everyone knows your smart no need for exaggerated vocabulary im having trouble keeping up with you and your amazig mind bro. We are just normal chaps here.

If anyone has experienced what im experiencing, any input would be highly appreciated.

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Bow chika wow wow

It sounds like either you have no self control, or your desire to pickup random women outweighs your desire to be in a relationship with a single woman. I would question why I got into a relationship in the first place. What do you want more? An LTR or the single life? You kind have to pick one.

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In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done.

I want this ltr to last long for a lot personal reasons and laziness.

Im more curious about what to do to become more content with one woman after being used to the pualifestyle and preventing myself from having recurrences these (at least for now).

Im sure some guys who have retired from pua could bring some insight.

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Bow chika wow wow

I'm having the same problem man. 2 months into my relationship now and everything is going great, shes a great girl, fun to be around, never once had a boring moment with her.

But, when she's not around and I find myself out, the urge to pick up and get girls numbers is high, I was at a party the other night (I usually do very well at parties) and I got talking to these two girls, I could see the IOI's and in my head I knew exactly where I could take it, lines such as "Which one of you is the best kisser?" Getting them to kiss before you jump through her hoop etc.. in the end I ejected and went to find my friend, if I had been drunk I almost certainly would have gone for it.

The thing is, I love my girlfriend and I love where things are going, but picking up girls keeps me from being non-clingy and it definitely keeps my confidence and self esteem up, it's tricky! You just have to try and control it

you will never be able to turn off game. Its going to be with you forever and you're going to trust people less.