hey fellas,

so every week or two this girl at my work has a jacuzzi night. I went last night and there were 2 other couples, then me and the girl from work. 1 couple was in her house while the other 2 guys (gay), were in the jacuzzi with us. There were some points where the 2 gay guys would be talking together and me and the girl would talk. I knew I needed to start kino escalation, but I wasnt sure how. I didn't want to touch her leg or something out of the blue while we're talking about random shit. That just seems weird. How would I flow the conversation in a way where I could touch her? While the 2 gays were talking, I told her to turn around so I could give her a massage, and then said I need to practice (studying to be a chiropractor). Would that have been a good excuse to start kino, would that have been weird in her position? It only lasted for a minute or 2 because we got out of the jacuzzi.

So I can make her laugh and shit like that, I just couldn't get her in a sexual state. Thanks for the advice!

Hey buddy,

well i have a way that can work in pretty much any group setting, so long as you are talking to her and only her.

well do you remember that game like hand slap? where one person is trying to slap the top of the others persons hand(s) before the withdraw them. well do that. this is both fun and effective.

its effective because your looking in her eyes and touching hands.

here are some rules to follow:
1) remember your being playful, so dont get completive and have to win
2) when your the slaper never hit her hard, just do a light hit.
3) if she "ouch" grab her hand and kiss it better and say your sorry
4) have her kiss your hands by saying "ouch my hands hurt i think i need a kiss to make it better"

also when your kissing her hand do a double kiss(pecks) dont make out with her hand.

Good luck with this girl

let me know if this helps

haha.. good idea Shane..