After a long night of sarging, my buddy and I stop at a 7-Eleven so he can get some cigarettes. We were still dressed up in nice clothes from going to clubs. He gets the cigarettes and joins me out in front of the store. As he lights up, a car drives up and parks right in front of the store. Two HB9s get out of the car, dressed in short skirts, high heels, and hair and makeup done like they just got out of a club. Me and my buddy stop talking, and the HB9s look at us as they walk silently into the store from about 10 yards from us. We notice there are two other HBs in the car's backseat. My buddy and I immediately start talking about how to open them when they come out of the store. The HBs walk out of the store about three minutes later. I had rotated my body to a position to where I would have had to look to my 3 o'clock position to view the HBs. His body was now rotated to where he was looking at the HBs via his 12 o'clock position. As the HBs walked to their car, my buddy watched them. They got into the car, started it, and let it run for about a minute before backing out and taking off. From the time the HBs walked out of the store till they were in it, silence from both parties yet again. My buddy then said that they both turned their heads as they walked from the store to the car to check us out again.

My question is this: How could we have opened them? There was already a built in time constraint from them walking into the gas station. If I would have asked them a question, I am wondering what would have happened. Because I didn't, now I will never know. Could I have remarked on their high heels? Would an opinion opener been sufficient? I ask because we received what we thought were IOIs from them looking at us. It seemed that, in retrospect, we could have opened them somehow. I am at the point where I would be more happy had I said they looked pretty tonight, or whistled at them, or something BESIDES just standing there and let a perfectly perfect set drive out of our lives. I am now left with this pent-up frustration of doing nothing, rather than saying anything at all. Again, how could we have opened them? Any help is greatly appreciated.

Hey!
The problem is that you are overthinking it too much, don't think if she's a HB9 - I hate that acronym- or if she's 10 or a 15 don't worry she's just a girl, next time just move faster. What you said about the shoes is great and since you didn't have much time you should have played calm and just go straight for the phone number, there was nothing you could loose it's much worse wondering what you should have done.

I would have said something like " I love your shoes you definitely have a good taste but since not me or you have time to talk about how great you look you should give me your phone number and we can talk about shoes or other matters, tomorrow maybe" - I'm not very good at being indirect sorry-

The important this is that next time you should say something, whatever it's just at least try it

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Good thoughts. Thanks.