Hey all -

Posted a field report a few days ago about last weekend. Basically, I went to a party, was vibin and feeling great and just had a blast overall. The main girl I was into and who was a lot of fun is what I am concerned about mainly.. (found out she had a boyfriend though)

After flirting with her here and there all night, my good buddy's new girl friend whom I've known for a long time was hinting me in that she was digging me, thought I was cuter than her bf, yadda yadda. I tried to get the number, but she was reluctant because of the bf and told me to fb request her.

Wasn't sure what to do at that point.. but someone replied to my field report changing my possible PM a bit and I went with it..

Me: Snotty! It was great meeting you the other night, most girls aren't that fun!

Her: U found me on fb??.......cReeeepPPp.. Jk jk yeah i know,, ima blast:) party.again.soooon.k?

Me: Hahaha. You're such a dork, I love it. And yea maybe.. I'll check my schedule and see if I can pencil ya in

Her: Lol kay mr.popularrr


My buddys gf was tellin me she wanted to hook us up.. but I don't know how legit that is? Should I just leave this here and respect that she has a boyfriend? I do not see the point in me continuing the conversation because..what will come out of it you know?

I was thinking of calling my buddys gf about it, but any time other people set shit up I don't know whether to trust them. What if she is decent friends with her and blows up my spot you know? Any advice or would you guys keep messaging? thanks for any help!

Mike

PS. I know to keep gaming other girls! No oneitis here..

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B*tches ain't nothin' but hoes and tricks.

Hey!
I wouldn't advice hooking up with her, What do you want? just sex? That migh fuck her relationship with her boyfriend and you should ask yourself if that's what you really want.
There are millions of women out there who are single, what's wrong witht hem?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

Hey thanks for your help guys.

I won't say that I'm only after her for sex. I don't know her well enough, but I did have the feeling that we 'clicked' really well, and I feel like if my first impression of her is right that I would enjoy spending time with her.

But I am going to take your guys advice and just drop it there, but if I had them break up I wouldn't say it would be for 'no reason'. Either way, if the girl is willing to leave for me just like that.. than what is to stop her from doing the same thing to me?

I'll just let her come to me..

Cheers!

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B*tches ain't nothin' but hoes and tricks.

I used to think this way.....

And then I talked to my sister. She said "ya girls will only leave a guy if they know they have another one lined up."

To me, is it facetious? I don't know anymore. I used to respect other guys, but if they can't provide for their girl and you can....natural selection? I dunno. I feel like if I'm the man and a girl wants to be with me bc of that, I'm not going to deny her that if I feel attracted to her.

I say go for it.