I've been reading post and occassionally tried to give my 2cents on things here. I'm no pro but I and not afc either, For some reason there have been these two girls around my university I haven't been able to open simply out of AA. It's really annoying because I even think one of them actually wants me to talk to her yet I just can't bring myself to do it. For example today I sat down randomly and she was walking by saw me and sat within eye site but I keep psyching myself out why is this happening only with these two chicks?

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Suriyel - According to the Book of Enoch, Suriyel was one of the leaders of angels who lusted after the daughters of men.

Well, to make it short, sweet, and simple, I would say just clear your mind, then approach them with a good opener, don't worry about what they have to think of you, think of this, if you don't approach them, maybe this whole time she really liked you and wanted you to yet you didn't and some other chump came along and did, and now he has the prize. Take that prize, walk up there, do your game, be calm and collected, and act like it's no problem. Which you would have to clear your mind, be in a generally good mood aswell. You have to think of it like this, that is if previous method doesn't work, think to yourself, that these girls are one in many, honestly, don't give a shit, clear your mind. Im telling you it works wonders when you clear your mind and approach, are they gonna be the only ones you ever approach in your whole life? If so, then yea take your time and work the science behind their every movement etc... thats obviously a bs scenario... So your going to have hundreds more coming and going, hotter then them, gaurentee it, just take the shot. I honestly laugh at a girl who rejects me, her loss not mine.

Edited: Forgot to mention, try the "Hi" challenge, go about saying hi to everyone, even if its guys in the campus, strike up conversations, and while your warmed up, attack your target...

P.S. If they absolutely have given you eye contact more then once, then it's a high probability they want you to approach, plus if they sat next to you or near you, and glanced at you, you would be a fool not to approach... They obviously want you to, they are saying "Hey you, yea you, come here and talk to me, I want to get to know you". That's what a girls eyes can say, or body language...

Thanks for the advice that's exactly the kind of back up I needed. I had completely forgotten about warming up before before going to open, it helps quite a bit.

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Suriyel - According to the Book of Enoch, Suriyel was one of the leaders of angels who lusted after the daughters of men.

Anytime bro, say hi to everyone even the hotties and it will seem easier to approach, good luck!

So I've never really been interested in talking to other dudes unless they know HBs, but today I randomly started a conversation with class mate before my first class. Before I knew I had a crowd of people around me all speaking to me. Right after class I was still in a talking mood so I chatted up this HB7.5 in my class suprisinglywith 0 AA .
I was however cock blocked by a buddy who was blissfully unaware(I aint even mad) and I just left them together but pretty sure when I left, their conversation died out. I kept opening to random people through out the day even a few more HBs

What I'm mainly trying to say is that if anyone with AA is reading this;

>>> Warming up by talking to *everyone* really helps with AA.

I feel this is my sticking points I fail at. Once opening is out of the way the rest easy as pie.

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Suriyel - According to the Book of Enoch, Suriyel was one of the leaders of angels who lusted after the daughters of men.

Glad to hear of your success! You have determination and motivation, exactly the attitude to excel, just keep it going, after many many different approaches, you will find it easy to talk to anyone, including hotter girls, and they will intimidate you less.