@ Baxter
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I have some questions for you, SexAddict
1.) How do you deal with aggressive AMOG´s / Cockblockers who will fuck up your whole set when you´re finally talking / escalating with girls?
This can be a tough situation. It all depends on how aggressive the dude is and how much interest the girl is showing you. If the guy is not being physical or boxing you out( getting in between you two) I would just pretend he's not there. Be polite if he addresses you but stand your ground, usually its all just a show unless he likes the girl too. Then there is a chance it may get heated. In any situation when you are getting cocked blocked, It's ideal to try to keep eye contact with the girl and see how she is reacting to it all. Keep her engaged, if she is seperated from you, keep eye contact. and smile as if it's not a big deal.
If the girl is showing interest in you, simply take her away from the group. You can either just grab her hand and guide her.( if she really likes you she will follow without hesitation) Or you can suggest going for a little walk to another part of the bar.
It's critical in this situation that you stand your ground and show some dominant aggression, even if it's not your nature. ( as in she is worth it so you will take charge and ensure your conversation continues)
Future reference: If you see a girl you want to approach and she is with guy friends, It's best to observe first, check out the body language of the guys towards the girl. If you can see signs of interest from a guy or guys, It's wise to not even bother and move onto the next. If the girl is showing you interest from a far, try to make friends with the dude's before you approach the girl. If the guy or guys like you. They will not only let you pass by without any issues, but they can often clue you in as to who is single, good to go, etc. All guy friends will watch out for their female friends, it's our nature as men to protect. Even guys that are pussy's will make an effort to protect. Spend 5-10 minutes, being friendly and social and it could just eliminate this issue all together.
2) How do you recognize horny girls in a club?
Any suspicious pattern of behaviour here?
This is not as easy as one would think as "Horny" is a state of mind. Over the years though I have observed some common body mannerisms of women I picked up that turned out to be freaks in the sheets.
In general without any interaction:
The most common thing i have noticed in a sexual woman is "the swagger".( a little side to side hip action as they walk)...Not only is it appealing to us on both a conscious/unconscious level, but in my experience it is usually indicative of a highly sexual woman.
Lip biting and tongue touching top lip. wandering eyes. I have also noticed, if a girl is wearing a necklace and she is staring at you and has her necklace in her mouth or hands close to her mouth ( as in holding the necklace to her lips and moving it side to side) it's a good sign she is good to go. Also women that are looking around a lot at men specifically. As if they are actually sizing them up.
With interaction:
again lip biting, her staring at your lips, looking and touching your chest and arms as you are talking. Her touching you a lot without laughter or smiles.
A lot of shallow sighs as she is looking at you.
3) I often get rejections from girls when being very direct, is it because of wrong screening / observing?
Ok here's the thing, Direct approaches can not be pulled off by everyone. Your body language must match your words. If you are not as confident as your comments, girls will tend to see right through it.
The thing about confidence is it can't be faked, no matter how good of an actor someone is. All your unconscious mannerisms will show the truth.
If you are not the most confident person ( I'm talking genuine confidence, not just courage) I suggest you approach politely and sincere. Be a gentleman. Spend some time talking to her in a friendly manner and observe her body language. If she starts to show signs of interest, you can then escalate and become more direct. The more comfortable you get with her the easier it will be to open up and the less her guard will be up.
Show the nice guy first, give her a decent impression of your character, then as soon as the moments right, begin to show your sexuality and an edge.
Just remember it's not a race. Take your time.
CHAT
