I keep seeing this girl at the gym and I want to approach her. She's usually with a friend on the elliptical and has her iPod on. Any advice?

I think you have aa, don't worry so much for what you have to say just go there and do it. Don't try anything too cocky if doesn't go with your personality just approach to her and be normal. Don't approach to her while she's working out, wait until she has finished and if her friend doens't have her ipod on approach to her friend and tease her " How rude is your friend comes to the gym with you and doens't want to pay you attention.... " this is just an example but I hope you get the point

If you want to approach to her directly then do it, don't hesitate. You can tell her something like - remember approaching after she has finished working out- "Constance I like that in a woman, do you always take things so seriously" if she has her ipod on , before using the opener use your hands to indicate her to take her headphones off.

After opening teaser her " What else do you like to do?besides going to the gym of course" Remember this is just an example

It's pretty much up to you, my only real advice is to be who you are don't aproach to her pretending to be someone that you are not, if you are shy and you pretend to be condifent it's going to look awful


I'd recommend you to chek this video: I'm sure is going to help you out.
Take care and good luck

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbjRPDVW ... PTy2aTLHEX

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

That is really good but it looks to stage, who brings a piece of paper and a pen to the gym? Do you know what I mean? I'd use my mobile, write something in there and give it to her. What do you think?

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

You are right, the whole point is gettinf the message to her, wanted to ask you about the video. What do you think? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbjRPDVW ... jdWDRfxft5

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

thanks guys!

That is really good but it looks to stage, who brings a piece of paper and a pen to the gym? Do you know what I mean? I'd use my mobile, write something in there and give it to her. What do you think?[/quote]

People may write down their workouts, usually in a little palm sized note pad. You could look at her quickly with a nice smile and get eye contact. Start writing in your notepad (she should be looking at you to to try catch a glimpse of what your writing) and then show it her, she may smile and unplug her self(ear phones of course what else..;D) and begin conversation.

Not field tested but it could be a good way to get convo started.

You could have pen and paper for your work out sheet

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"If you get tangled up, just tango on."--Al Pacino, Scent of a Woman

As for openers with iPod:

I agree with the written down message, either a notepad or a phone well work, don't overanalyse.
You could also just unplug earphone gently, follow up with "Hi"

As for direct openers:

A compliment perhaps? She is in the gym for a reason; looking good. Compliment her on her glutes, thighs whatever your eye can dwell upon.
Worst thing that can happen is she will be flattered.

Very good openers ideia. Just a thought here: everybody says to approach her after she is done with her exercise. I disagree. I think the best time is before. After, she will be all sweat and exhausted (turn on for us LOL) and in her head not attractive. She will automatically have her BS up.

What do you guys think?

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