Well i can approach girls no problem and always have a good opener but once i get that out i completely freeze up and don't know what to do next. I've been trying to work on it this past week and it's gotten better.

Yes Thats anxiety, its a mistake 99% of guys make, your to in your head about what to say next and your nervous and she feels it and that tension is felt between both of you, best advice... look into natural game,you used an opener which is canned... if you used canned material your stuck to a script, and not everything goes according to plan. I myself am a big user of Nautural game, in my opinion it seems easier to undertand.. you dont have to learn a million lines and routines. With natural game your given techniques and mindsets that aply to any situation and whatever obstacles you come across. and you dont have to memorize a bunch of junk. i know of some great free material that i can suggest to you, let me know if your interested.

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Give me some info on natural game/material.
If u can tell, i'm new to the game.
I'm only 19 and a college student and want to prepare myself to be a PUA when i turn 21 n go to clubs

Well man you dont have to wait til your 21 to be a pua lol, another good thing about natural game is that it aplies to other situations other than in night clubs like when your out at the supermarket or at a college party ect... and not sure where you live but most places you can go to clubs when your 18 you just cant drink.. which honestly you dont need to anyway.. but on to material if you have and ipod or iphone then i highly recomend going into itunes and downloading the pickup podcast, its free its full of content and its helped me out in game more than any other material ive used, it covers every aspect of natural game, if your looking into buying a good book then go here http://howtotextgirls.com/400/
its called the txt book, it covers everything from how to get a girls number to settting up dates and pretty much everything relating to txting lol, that should definatly cover any problems you have, it will advance your game to a whole nuther level, its what i started out with and really works, let me know what you think:)

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

Well i live about 30-45 min away from chicago. So yeah i could go to clubs. But me being a college student, living on campus, no car, no job, & limited money it kinda hinders me from going anywhere. But i do have friends that can drive so i could convince them to go to night clubs. So most of the material i see on here i try to apply it to when i'm walking around campus.

But for the material. Could u link me to the podcast? I went onto pickup podcast n there's too many podcasts

well as far as advice from this site its iffy, alot of people might give you false information and mess you up, a good rule you might want to follow is this "dont shit were you eat".. bassicly if you screw up and make things akward with a girl and you have to be in class with her all the time its not a good situation lol, its best to go places you might not visit again to practice picking up at first then when you feel more comfertable with it and can handle moer intense akward tension and such then you can start applying it to places you constatly are required to go ... and heres that like for ya http://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/pick ... d212382281

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

True dat. Lol. I already made a mistake and i have a class with girl i tired to approach . Now it's awkward. But the good thing about my school is i more than 60% of students are commuters so i could use some material when i'm walking around after class

btw tanks for the link