Ok, i m trying to game this girl i kinda like. We have good rapport and i m a funny and witty guy, so most of our conversations are fun! But, when I tried asking her out once, she said that she knew my type too well and it didnt catch her fancy! lol

So, basically i find out that she s had like 3 bad experiences where guys have cheated on her. I guess thats a reason she brackets guys into categories and has a kind of invisible wall to her.

So, how do i overcome this? Should i show a sensitive side to her? lol. I m pretty lost, so i need some good advice from u guys! Help me out guys!

Sadly smart witty guys are normally seen to women as players. Reason is that they see them as socially confident smooth talkers who can woo any women. You know the saying " quickest way to a woman's heart is laughter" well that is the bullet you just used to shoot your own foot. So from here on out you're going to have to work twice as hard. My advice is either forget the game and go. Afc on her with shy sweet sensitive... but honestly she will see that coming if she already knows you. Or better yet freeze her and when she comes back... I mean if. Go at her in a more romantic tone. You need to know she is broken and resentful though. So don't expected a relationship that works. Expect chaos and jealousy.

Good luck.

hardkink is right with the romantic, But bring it on smooth, Because too suddenly she will see right through you...Also you can build some rapport by showing your sensitive side or even throwing out a story of a similar sitation where you were hurt. Best not to fake it either if you are trying to go steady...But like hardkink was saying about trust issues and what not, Be ready for an emotional roller coaster.

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Hey guys, thanks for the reply!

Thanks for the advice! I was reading about something called the "soulmate moment". Sounds cheesy, and is kinda against my style because its kinda manipulative, but do u think thats worth a shot?

I guess sometimes i do not focus enough on the comfort stage. I m like usually really good at the attraction stage but i dont get to know the person too well. But, i usually try leaving that for when i meet her in person, but in this case she doesnt wanna meet me in person coz she thinks i m just gonna game her. lol. So, how do i go about that?

Should i just try that soulmate moment thing, and then freeze her out after that. Then, if she comes back to me after seeing that sensitive side, it ll probably be on??

Yeah Bud i agree with Donston. And like he said it a last resort kinda thing. Although i have never used this the way he said and like insulting a girl that much i have used a PG version of this.

I was like "I AM DONE _______(

damn its doing the samething :/ well its in your PM inbox

Well, its not really your problem to fix. She probably has been hurt before so, she needs to accept that, and with time, she will trust you. I don't try to prove it. I just let things happen but, it doesn't always workout.

Got your PM Shane! Thanks! I m gonna give that a shot! Sounds like it should work!