Hey guys,

after finally making my way to the register part of the forum, i would like to ask you guys some questions. im not going to fully introduce myself, cause i think that doesnt really matters. im just your average PUA starting guy. ive read some material (the game, mystery method etc) and im currently busy listening to "on being a man" by DeAngello.

what i really want to get out of the venusian arts is confidence and a very strong inner game. im not here to learn routines or tricks to get women, i want to be able to attract women just because i have a very strong inner game. i think that's the basis that i need.

now my question to you guys is: what do you advice me to do in order to get that very strong inner game? what material can do you guys advice? (books films etc). do you know particular ways to build good inner game? any advice is welcome!

Jacee

in my opinion inner game comes from inner peace. like if your happy with who you are and the things you do and will do then you have inner game. if not happy with who and what you are then 1) change the things you dont like about your self so that you become happy with who and what you are or 2) accept that you have flaws and embrace those flaws. for example i have a Y shaped scar on the side of my face. like its there everyone can see it, because it goes from my temple to my jaw line. however i like it(now) it makes me look badass. its a sign on the hardships i have overcome. my outwordly vibe i give is i dont care of you can see my scar, in fact i want you to see it i am proud of it.

and buddy if you give off that your happy with how you look and what you look like people wont care.

let me know if this helps

Agree with $hane, I have always gone with 'if you dont love yourself who is gonna love you attitude.

Easier said than done I know, but personally I run a lot because it makes you feel physically and mentally enpowered, which will pass over to the set you open because you dont feel self conscious so much.

Also remember that everyone is fighting the same battle with life, if you read body language by Allan Pease as a start you can cold read your target with a little practice and see signs of their own vices. Either that or try the cube method.

Ive not done it a lot but simply by working this hook gives you an idea of what they think of themselves.

Hope this helps.

Jax -x-

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Thanks guys! what you just told me is absolutely true.

BUT, what im trying to do here, is get that inner game. and i know that if i love the way i am more then anybody else, other people will do that too. but the point is i dont know how to achieve it. of course i can say that i love the way i am and the way i look, and i do, but i need to build that even further so that when somebody says i dont, i just ignore what they just said. i need actual methodes to build that inner game. i need ways to improve my confidence. not just saying that i am confident and i that i like the way i am. actual methodes to improve on that area is what im after. and i was hoping there would be some ways of achieving this.

but thanks anyways, your advices are still helpfull

Jacee

Jacee,

there are many ways that you can achieve inner game.

for building confidence: "if at first you dont succeed, try, try, and try again." i bet if you ask any of the MPUA's on here how did they gain confidence. and it was by just keeping on opening to girls over and over again, til they were fully confident in there game.

as far as being able to get over what people say that is harder but what i did was surround my self with both guys and girls that build me up and not tear me down. i found that if the people i care about think i am awesome then i dont give a rats arse if someone i dont care about says.

Let me know if you have anymore questions