Hey all, I need some advice!

I had this smoking hot boss for about 6 months but we were only ever working the same location for like 4 hours a week. At the work place we were always playful, and flirting on and off as was appropriate for the workplace.

Two weeks ago she left the company, but still stays in contact with me. We texted probably every other day, sometimes 3 days in a row or so. Started off being mainly about work, but last week moved on to general flirting with her telling me to not dream about her and me teasing that she can visit me outside of work (she always talks about visiting the office) and her teasing back that she dreams about me.

So I told her on Wednesday to come out last night because my friend was able to get a group of us on GL at a club/bar. She said she already had plans to see her friends band or something but to put her and her friend on the GL and said to keep my phone on incase it gets out early..."or else". Long story short, she didn't come but I wasn't expecting her to because she has done the same thing to another person at the office(who is gay, not sure if it matters).

My question basically has to do with because she was my boss does all that supervisor/worker rapport that was built up basically leave me stuck in the friend zone? She's an active girl so I was thinking about asking her to go on a hike or something rather than out to a club, but then I was thinking that a hike might not come off in the right manner. ideas? help?

Thanks in advance!

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maybe, maybe not , no one can relly answer this without seeing the nature of your texts and her follow up interest. However assume she wants your cock for 2 reasons. One if she doesn't you will find out soon enough and that thought serves no purpose. second, if she does, and you question you ability to pursue, you will likely beta yourself by being too timid.

So forget these group get together and stand by guest list shit, and waiting about for her. Again, all too beta. Just ask her out for late night drinks when she has time, escalate from there. If she pulls back then freeze out and re-engage with more flirting sexual intent, then ask out again for date with romantic/sexual frame.

no group/friend/standby events - lame.

One that stood out went like this:

Me: I only wipe my tears with the finest lotion kleenex!
HB: That is because you're high maintanence!
Me: Funny coming from you!
HB: What is that supposed to mean!!!!???? I'm not at all!

Well one more that stood out to me went like this:

HB: If I come you better not ruffie me!

Me: Ooo that's a great idea, do you know where I can get some?

HB: I was just kidding...get some E.

HB: Kidding again!

Me: It'd be a lot cooler if you weren't.

HB: Trying to take advantage I see!

Me: Well, everything just feels better on E, so really it isn't taking advantage at all if I tried and closed. And thus in my defense it wouldn't be taking advantage at all!

HB: You better not try either on me!

Me: I might try both.

HB:

Then I ended it like that.

this only reaffirms my advice

Yeah cool dude. Keep being sexual in texts, don't give that up.

Ask her out again. Get the date, make a solid move (kiss, fuck, something real). And then BACK OFF SOME. Don't overpressure her early in the relationship, I've made that mistake recently. Say you're busy for a while, then come back to her.